my own mind. could be to weird

i have been wondering a lot of things lately

such as who are "they", like "they said", "they think that" "they make the rules"
and why do we listen to "them"

Why when you know what the answer is to someones problem, "you are trying to contol them". Like i say to an alcoholic (i'm recovering also). "don't drink" but you are being intrusive on their wants.

Why is marriage so much work?
why are people so mean and why do we have to take it
Why are consequences so horrible
why is pain a part of life.
why is war so necessary
who made the rules and why don't they ever change.

see i'm weird hopeflly not to strange.

 

You should use the word "too" in this case. "To" is not the correct spelling.

 

what?

 

why is marriage so much work

 

To:

1. 1. In a direction toward so as to reach: went to the city.
   2. Towards: turned to me.
2. 
   
   1. Reaching as far as: The ocean water was clear all the way to the bottom.
   2. To the extent or degree of: loved him to distraction.
   3. With the resultant condition of: nursed her back to health.
3. Toward a given state: helping minority women to economic equality.
4. In contact with; against: their faces pressed to the windows.
5. In front of: stood face to face.
6. Used to indicate appropriation or possession: looked for the top to the jar.
7. Concerning; regarding: waiting for an answer to my letter.
8. In a particular relationship with: The brook runs parallel to the road.
9. As an accompaniment or a complement of: danced to the tune.
10. Composing; constituting: two cups to a pint.
11. In accord with: job responsibilities suited to her abilities.
12. As compared with: a book superior to his others.
13. 
    
    1. Before: The time is ten to five.
    2. Up till; until: worked from nine to five.
14. 
    
    1. For the purpose of: went out to lunch.
    2. In honor of: a toast to the queen.
15. 
    
    1. Used before a verb to indicate the infinitive: I'd like to go.
    2. Used alone when the infinitive is understood: Go if you want to.
16. 
    
    1. Used to indicate the relationship of a verb with its complement: refer to a dictionary; refer me to a dictionary.
    2. Used with a reflexive pronoun to indicate exclusivity or separateness: had the plane to ourselves.

Too:

1. In addition; also: He's coming along too.
2. More than enough; excessively: She worries too much.
3. To a regrettable degree: My error was all too apparent.
4. Very; extremely; immensely: He's only too willing to be of service.
5. Informal. Indeed; so: You will too do it!

In this case, the original post was using the 2nd definition of Too.

 

u r to smert 4 ur owen gud

 

Just trying to leave the world a little better than I found it