theres this girl i like and i asked her out today and she said shed think about it...... in a way im relieved for having the balls to ask her but im also wondering if she said to break me down easy or to really think about it.... i really dont which way it could go... is there any way i could make my chances better? maby by saying id always treat her with respect,never cheat, all that stuff?
It's not necessarily bad... it's hard to answer that kind of question without knowing her though. Sometimes people just don't like being put on the spot, you know? But please, whatever you do, don't run after her making promises to her, it'll make you look/sound/etc like a crazy stalker. Show her you respect her by giving her space to think Let us know what happens!
I would say ask her out for a hot cocoa or something so you can talk. It'll give her an oppurtunity to know you more, be more comfortable, and she'll be more able to decide. Just hang out like she's a friend. If that's not already the case. If it's just some random girl, she's probably a little weirded out and researching you right now. -my theory
