me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over ten months. well some really confusing stuff has happened lately and my friend seanie talked to him and he said he was going to break up with me. i dont know weather to belive seanie because when he isnt being a jerk he gets information wrong. i know it is just a highschool relationship, but it really hurts. i dont know what to do. im not sure if we are still together or if we are broken up. i just really need some advice right now.
Well I would say talk to him. Ask him to be straight with you. When ever I get mixed signals about a relationship I like to ask for clarity. Communicating with one another is an important pat of a relationship. Also trust your instincts. Try not to be too heartbroken if you break up. I know it is hard when you do and your world feels like it has fallen apart but don't give up because there is bound to be someone else out there. Matt
definitely confront him about this...... i would talk to him and ask him what his feelings really are and if he says that he indeed wants to break up with you, ask him why, so that if the relationship is over, you will have a sense of closure
always let happenings in a relationship be between you and him; don't let friends do the relaying of information for you. always get the information straight from your significant other...
Don't put yourself down...I hate it when people say things like "just a highschool relationship" as if it isn't important and filled with feelings. Anyway, you definitely should confront him - and be sure to ask him why he told your FRIEND instead of you, cos that's not nice. If it is over, of course it will hurt for a while, that's normal.
When a relationship ends i look back and realize that i thought it WAS love. I can continue in my relationship journey stronger than before because i know now what love ISNT. thats how i take every heartbreak, and yeah its hurts definitly but there is more great times to come! much love, kaytee
