fucking sex!

why me? its just not fair. thats such a stupid thing to say but i cant help it. why? why? i dont think im ever going to have sex and i know blah blah blah youre a girl its really easy to just go find a desperate man but i dont want to im scared i mean im disgusting how could anyone ever like me? i dont even like me i am such a stupid fucking bitch. the thought of getting naked with someone just freaks me out totally but i am so fucking horny and really seriously i dont think masturbation is very fulfilling especially when its because im so fucking horny. arg!!!!!!! im going insane.

 

Well I would say don't just have sex with the first person you see! If you're scared then it probably means you're not ready. Only do it when you are really ready and want to. In the mean time just keep masturbating I guess!

 

For someone who sounds a little anxious about sex, my advice would be to NOT go looking for some "desperate man", or infact any other man. It sounds to me like you first need to work on yourself and your self-confidence. It sounds like you mostly have issues with your image, so have a good think about this. Try and find things you find beautiful about yourself and think about them. Buy new clothes, get a haircut, enjoy being you.
Then, when youre fully confident in yourself, it is likely that youll be ready for a serious, sexual relationship with a decent man...and that relationship will come to you.
Its strange, but ive found its the way it works.

But until then, dont feel youve got some kind of problem just because you havent had sex. The people with real problems are the ones who rushed it and had sex with scummy men they didnt even remotely like or know, nevermind love. You could be doing a lot worse. It sounds to me like youre on the right track.

Good luck, and dont worry-
Love-Maxi.Xx

P.s- Its possible sex has been hyped-up to you by your friends or whatever too. I was actually rather disappointed with sex the first few times, because id been expecting more...i thought it was a big deal. But the truth is its not...listen to the above poster if youre not sure stick with masterbation. Unless you already have the right man, youre not missing much.

 

sex was invented by the media and advertising companies in order to sell things, it should be used for procreation purposes only and not just something to do to pass the time. People sometimes act like animals when they run around and do it with anyone and everyone, it should be a very special thing. People need to respect themselves and others and get used to the fact that there is more to life than exchanging bodily fluids with everyone in sight.

 

But if you do need a desprate man, I exist.

 

LoL

You sound like you're just kinda angry at yourself right now. Sex doesn't usually solve this problem. However, if you're that horny, I don't see why masterbation isn't working for you. Maybe you need better "techniques." But I really hope you feel better soon.

 

All I'm going to say is "welcome to my world" - I know EXACTLY how you feel!!

 

I'm not sure how old she is or if she's legal but, if she is, maybe you two need to hook up and solve each other's problem. Just a thought.

 

Mmmm nice idea but I'm past the "doing anything about it" stage a long time ago. I'll be 100% virgin the day they put me in the ground!!

 

As long as you're content with that and have no regrets, cool. But if you do have regrets, you definitely need to do something about it.

 

No I'm not happy or content with being a virgin all my life but I see it as the easy option. Too much involved in me overcoming the fears that stop me from getting into a normal loving, sexual relationship. So I stay away from anything that might lead to me getting involved with a woman.

 

i'll give you some advice when/if i ever have sex...

 

There is a great diference between making love and sex.
Making love is much more than fucking with the first person on your way.

 

I sort of agree with the view that making love and sex are different things, one to share your feelings with the person you are married (or whatever) to and one for the purpose of reproduction. Either way, some people don't feel comfortable with it however you name it. At 41, I consider myself too old to become a father and I don't see any reason to fight the demons that have made me SCARED of sex just so that I can prove to someone how much they mean to me.......as I said previously, I'm not happy at the prospect of being a virgin all my life but at least its easy!!!

 

Geez, don't be so hard on yourself! And if your age is correct, you really shouldn't be worrying about sex that much anyhow. I mean, you're only 16? You've got plenty of time yet.

Masturbate, get some fun toys, and enjoy yourself.

 

Her age isn't even displayed. She has 16 POSTS. haha I thought it was her age when I first looked at it though.

 

Oh well, now I feel dumb. I thought she was 16, didn't realize it was 16 posts. *lol*

But that's okay, I still stand by my original post. Get some cool new toys and have some private bonding time!

 

I felt dumb too after I realized it. Who knows, she may actually BE 16, or younger. But she may be 78, as well. Anyway......

It is good acvice though, regardless of age.

 

awww now with a name like jolly wobble fluff,,..

you dont sound at all like you actually beleive all them nasty things youre typin about yerself..

hell i bet ya really are a jolly wabble fluff..

NOW GET OUT THERE AN BE HAPPY ABOUT WHO YA ARE..

the rest will come.. an i supposse in yer context ,,cum..

 

Heheheh, thanks bud.