What happen to manners?

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Goodwitch13, Dec 9, 2005.

  1. Goodwitch13

    Goodwitch13 Member

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    People just don't have them anymore. It drives me NUTS..
    Common courtesy to your fellow man.
    Please, thank you, when did these words get removed from the daily language?


    I went to go get gas and this young kid was at the counter, he was trying to buy a pack of gum. He did not have enough money; he turned and asked if I had 15 cents. Yes, I do and it’s all yours. He takes it, pays the lady, and walks out the door. Not a thank you, thx, hand wave, head gesture, nothing.



    People don't smile and say hello to each other these days. I say hi as I pass people and you would think I had two heads the way they look at me.

    Man what the hell happen to this place?



    Bad day, sorry for venting!!
     
  2. TARABELLE

    TARABELLE on the road less traveled

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    I know, I know. I just hate it when you let people pull out in front of you in traffic and they don't wave thanks.
     
  3. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

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    i mean, did you really expect the kid to say thanks?
    manners have no effect on me.. some people use them others dont..doesnt really bother me...its people who are self-righteous that bother me...
     
  4. booshnoogs

    booshnoogs loves you

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    i think it's rude when people shoot other people because of disputes over drugs and hookers and territory.
     
  5. IronGoth

    IronGoth Newbie

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    I am gonna buy a cattle prod.

    And the next time I say "Thank you" and instead of "You're welcome" the person says "y-uh huhhhhh" I'm gonna tazer the bastard.
     
  6. icedteapriestess

    icedteapriestess linguistic freak

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    I offered my arm to an elderly lady the other day, leaving the grocery store. It was icy out, and I didn't want her to fall. She looked at me like I was going to shoot her or something.

    A little girl was crying in that same grocery store the week before. I knelt down to ask her what was wrong, where her parents were and the like. All of a sudden this woman comes running, scoops up her child and looks at me like I had done something wrong.

    Guess you aren't allowed to be a good person in public anymore. No helping little old ladies get to their cars... no helping lost 4 yr olds find their mommies. Nope... better just ignore everything and be self-absorbed like everyone else.
     
  7. Biggen

    Biggen Banned

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    Maybe manners have no effect on you because you have none of your own.

    Self-righteous people bother you? That's a laugh, coming from you. Are you saying you bother yourself, then?

    Some people....
     
  8. Biggen

    Biggen Banned

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    Damn dirty, artsy hippy...how dare you?! :p
     
  9. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

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    wow, holy shit that was a zing, that creative zing of yours...:rolleyes: i think i shall commit suicide over this comment...please quick someone give me a hotline number..

    dont you have bus stops to go cruise by...dumbass...


    http://www.hipforums.com/forums/attachment.php?attachmentid=26808&stc=1
     
  10. Therefore...

    Therefore... Antidentite

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    Zap 'em once for me.:D
     
  11. daisymae

    daisymae Senior Member

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    What is your problem Biggen?
     
  12. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

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    hes mad cause I called him an idiot cause he likes child porn...
     
  13. Biggen

    Biggen Banned

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    I'm not mad...I'm a jolly fat man.

    You called me out...and since no one seems to play nice anymore, I choose to do the same.

    That's real clever, the way you took my pic and made fun of me. Boo Hoo. I'm weeping in the fucking corner now, because mystical shroom doesn't like me and she thinks I'm a pedophile.

    You're opinions and your antics are laughable, at best.
     
  14. Goodwitch13

    Goodwitch13 Member

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    Boy,I didnt have to go very far to get my answer about what is happening to this world, you showed me first hand.

    No manners and no respect for others? Mystical_shroom we thank you for your ongoing support and contribution towards making our world a kinder place for each of us.
     
  15. booshnoogs

    booshnoogs loves you

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    This fight is really boring.
     
  16. just because you have a preset series of rules that mean politeness to you does not mean someone can't have an alternate set that they feel means politeness to them

    when politeness is blind tradition it's just ridiculous

    example: Thank You, You're Welcome, well what exactly is the person welcome to? the thing that you did for them that they said thank you for?

    I gave you a kidney, Thank you, You're welcome, Welcome to what? the kidney? you already gave it to them? if it's the other kidney that's a fairly ridiculous route, so come on, think about blind tradition before you follow it.....
     
  17. booshnoogs

    booshnoogs loves you

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    He's right. Moral relativism rocks. Next time somebody does something nice for me, I'm gonna poke 'em in the eye. If they get upset, I'll just explain that it's my way of expressing grattitude. I'm not bound by their culteral norms and pointless traditions. I will not be oppressed!
     
  18. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    haha, ethical relativism, what fun



    Eh, people are rude and they think they're entitled. Seriously, those lawyer ads on american stations drive me crazy... "blah blah got me the money I DESERVED".... since when do we feel we're so entitled to everythign in the world?

    Then again, some lady accosted me while I was trying to cross the street for bus tickets, but I didn't have any and I didn't want to give her my change (lunch monies)... I'd rather help out with time and effort than with money since I'm always ALWAYS short on money heh. c'est la vie
     
  19. really gouge with it, if you're gonna express gratitude make sure they remember you forever....
     
  20. Beyond-the-Clouds

    Beyond-the-Clouds Senior Member

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    Manners ain't no good for nuttin'.
     

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