The answer is yes and no. The G-spot is named after Dr Grafenberg, a doctor who is turning in his grave at the idea. Dr. Ernst Grafenberg, is credited with the invention of the first IUD, the Grafenberg ring. Dr. Grafenberg, a German Jew, studied in Gottingen and Munich, and was an ophtalmologist before turning to gynecology. His IUD was presented in London in 1929, at the International Congress of Sexual Reform. Before coming to the U.S., Dr. Grafenberg survived 3 years of imprisonment by the Nazis, from which he was freed thanks to a huge ransom paid by Margaret Sanger. Dr. Grafenberg is rightly considered the "father" of the IUD not because he was the first to utilize such a method, but for the scientific precision in which he conducted the investigation and reported the results. In a short paper on female orgasm he uses the word "spot" only once and states: "Innumerable erotogenic spots are distributed all over the body, from where sexual satisfaction can be elicited; these are so many that we can almost say that there is no part of the female body which does not give sexual response, the partner has only to find the erotogenic zones." The "G-spot" is an erotic zone on the anterior wall of the vagina along the course of the urethra. But there is not a magic "spot" that works for all women the same way. Good lovers learn about eachother and all their "spots" Just my dos centavos.
Oh yea....learn to find it...play with it and make her cum from it and she'll want you forever... paul
the g spot is a spongy feeling thing about one inch into the vagina on the front wall, but as was mentioned not everyone can orgasm off it, I had to train myself.
Just inside the vagina on the front wall...and you certainly shouldn't beat on it to pleasure her. Just lightly tap it and stroke it. It's NOT like somebody took a piece of dick and slapped it in there.
Yes, it is there. My ex girlfriend had a pretty sensitive one! One time playing around and then all of a sudden she turned into a water fountain.
In my experience, I've best reached the G-spot with my partners by mounting the from behing, 'doggy' style, although I don't know if this is true of everyone.
Or--- with her on top and leaning waaaaaaaay backward, so that the head of my dick rubs the G spot. I suppose guys with bent dicks (mine is straight) offer a little advantage in this respect. The thing most guys don't realize is that this doesn't require extremely deep penetration, so the "big cock/little cock" issue doesn't factor in. Another way to establishe contact during intercourse is the sidesaddle position, she lies on her back with one leg raised, you lie beside her on your side. You can reach down and pull the shaft upward to reach it. It's all good. The main thing is the two of you need to go looking for it, and "discover" fun ways to stimulate the G spot. BTW, funny seeing it refereed to as "Gee" as in "golly."
yes there is a G spot, its meant 2 b about 2-3 inches in on the upper wall. just play around n try n find it, the more u practise finding it, the more apparent the location will be
i've had guys feel me up and couldn't find my clit either. i try to show them, but not all of them get it ... shouldn't they teach you that in phys ed or something? ..
That would be too much like right. Unfortunately we all have to do OJT (on job training). I can still remember the various girls who taught me little bits and pieces that made me a better lover. One of the few jobs where feeling your way around is fun tho. Oh, I also learned how to hook my fingers and stroke inside my wife (prolly the G spot) while sucking her clit. She nearly crushed my head in her thighs.
I know exactly what you're talking about. It took me years to "get it" and then only with some serious research and a patient girlfriend. I must have poked and prodded around down there for years, looking for some sort of mini-penis or lever or secret button. Now, I have a son who has come of age, and I TRY to give him some fatherly advice, but he simply won't engage in the conversation. Just awkward for him, I guess. Sadly, this is something that kids need to fumble along with and there's just no getting around it. Unless...................... ...............you could call me, and I promise that I'd know where it is and what to do..... Kidding, of course. (Do you live anywhere near the Seattle area?) LOL
Funny that when some of the sexologists finally agreed what g-spot is they decided it's "female prostate gland". Earlier prostate was dubbed "male g-spot" because of the pleasurable sensations. What Grafenberg assumed to be a special spot on the wall of the vagina in fact is an erectile tissue that protects the urethra during penetration plus glands that may produce fluid when stimulated. Previous members described how to find it – I may add that's easier when she is aroused. If you want some anatomy diagrams showing the glands, go to 3DVulva.
