How do you men feel about aggressive women

i didnt really read this thread. but i love agressive women. someone who will challenge me or take control sometimes. ive had a few girls with no real agression or ambition, and i'm trying to stay away from those.

 

I have this very exact problem. I never used to be shy about sex until i met my fiancee, he taught me to be ashamed of my body. He didn't purposely do it but he took me shopping for new clothes and said that i needed to cover up my stomach more. I guess thats about when I started to become self concious of my body in public and in bed. For me to be aggressive in bed i have to feel wanted and sexy and to be damn honest my fiancee has never made me feel that way. So my problem isnt my pride my problem is why the hell should i please him physically and mentally when he has barely ever made me feel wanted and sexy among other things. My fiancee told me that he would love to have me wake him up by givng him head or just start riding him thats one of his little fantasies and when i was pregnant i woke him up as he wanted and he rejected me every single time so sincce then i have been saying to hell with what he wants. also he has a huge problem with eating me out and i asked him and his reply is that as he gets older he relizes that he wants to live and that licking pussy is disgusting cuz of the fact that urine comes from down there. So since then i have told him that i refuse to give him head cuz it's " disgusting" even though i love giving him head. Just recently i have started to try aand give a dam about what he wants i texted messaged him what i wanted to do to him when he came to bed and do little quircky things and i really dont think he has noticed.

 

I am in no way judging you, but do you really think you should marry this guy? I'm sorry but he sounds like a complete asshole. Did he go down on you before, or is this something he just stopped doing because he decided it was gross. Getting older and wanting to live have nothing to do with eating pussy. If nothing else, oral sex would be something you enjoy even more as you get older and more skilled...I know I have. I'd tell him he ain't all that anyway and go about my merry little way, but that's just me.

 

RE: and what if some chick you find unattractive makes some moves on you...

Then you politely say no thanks, but wow.

 

It isn't desperate because guys do it and they aren't desperate.

 

this can be arranged

 

urine is sterile.

And on a side note, I just watched the episodes in Season 2 of Scrubs with Heather Locklear in them...

Sugarmaggie, you are such a hottie!!!

 

I'm not sure why, but sometimes men will get turned off sexually or have a lower libido once they see a child pass through their wife's vagina. I'm not sure what it is, but I have known plenty of guys that lost their sex drive following their wife's first pregnancy. Maybe that has something to do with this?

It's sad.

 

but wow?



I guess that's one of the biggest reasons why I don't make the moves on guys very often, I'm so afraid of rejection. It seems so much easier to wait for a guy to make a move on me (not that it happens much). I've also had it pounded into my head from several family members that if he doesn't make the first move, he isn't that into you. arg.

 

uys like aggressive women that we know, if a girl approaches a guy in a bar and is aggressive it comes off wrong, slutty or just too desprate
but if you already have sex or been dating for a while, be aggressive hell yes its hottt

 

I dont care how agressive they are doesnt bother me as long as she doesnt brake what ever shes cleaning

 

hehe..thank you sweetheart..

 

when i met him he did go down on me once and i told him not to cuz i just got done douching. When our relationship got serious he would brag about going down on all these different girls and bla bla bla. I dont think that seeing aiden be born was a turn off cuz when we found out we were pregnant his libido went down and slowly but surly hehad no interest in having sex with me.

 

I myself would love for women to be more agressive. Im pretty shy around women. So im very bad at aproaching them. Or even chatting with them. And i perfer for the other person to break the ice when im around them.

It would be cool if they were. And it would be a nice boost to my self-esteem for a chick to be comming after me. -_-

And she doesn't have to be Salma Hayek either. As long as she isn't 300 lbs. And has a limp. I'll be cool with it.

 

That's one of the problems with this world. Too many women think that they can't pick up guys, and so they don't even try.

Your family members are delusional.

 

imhurria - women ALWAYS make the first move.

 

Me making the first move depends on how many crown and cokes I've had....I always get a little braver..
Seriously though, I've found that guys can be very intimidated. I'll look for signs of interest, and if I see any then I'll go ahead and pursue it. I definately don't think that it should all be left up to the guys.

 

Aggressive women rock. SugarMaggie, I think you should come over and dominate me. Then I'll turn it around and dominate you back. But, you have to give me at least 30-45 minutes to give you oral. That's all I ask.

 

Everyone loves sugarmaggie

 

at least 30-45 minutes?? Yeah..I believe I can grant that request..
*breaks out the handcuffs*