A question...

Hey guys, I know this is my first post, but I've been reading the forum for a long time now, so I hope that you guys could answer a question for me! I'm married to a extremly regular poster on the forum, but I'm not going to post who it is for relative obivious reasons...my wife said that she wants to "give" me a threesome for christmas, but, here comes the question, how and where would we go around to meeting someone for this?
Now please don't start off with how it's not a good idea, because the decision is already made, we're just trying to work out about how we're gonna go about it!
Please give me your opinion...

Thanks

 

Anyplace where you could meet people that you won't have a regular bond with. If you go to the gym, the grocery store. Probably not a good idea with anyone either of you work with. A great place would be a bar.

 

My first thought is that if your wife is giving you the present, she should "do the shopping" as it were. If she knows no one who is interested, I would suggest finding a like minded couple amongs your friends.

The mechanics of where and when would depend on how well you know the person involved. And their situation (children in the home at the time is just one issue to be determined.)

Good Luck and have fun!

 

see, that's the thing, we got kids, and since their well being and saftey is more important than anything, we already established that it couldn't happen at our house, but more at a hotel, and we live in a relative small town, it's not going to be someone we know or nothing...but how thell hell do you approach someone for that...like "hey, what's going on...wanna have a threesome...?" I somehow doubt that would work on anyone post 16!!!

 

is it a mmf or ffm threesome? Anyway, do you prefer a stranger? It can't be with anyone you both know?

 

she said she would prefer a ffm...i've never had any sexual experience with another dude, so i wouldn't mind a mmf, but...
yea, she wants it to be a stranger, kindda of a one night stand thing

 

You could go to one of those bdsm dom/sub clubs??? You are bound to find someone there.

 

It sounds that, after health, safety, and security are factored in, what you want is a professional.

 

i think the problem with this would be, there might be a bit of drama or weirdness if they decided to go with a friend....................
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I agree that friends are an issue. The "are the benefits worth risking the frinedship" question, except instead of 2 people and 1 relationship, there are 4 people and 11 relationships involved.

 

that sounds more complicated than anything should ever be............ LOL
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Its not complicated compared with finding Xmas parking spaces.

 

but in the end no one is giving him any advise as to how they should go around doing it?

 

i think that the best bet, since you dont want it to be someone you know and want a one night stand is probably going to a club or bar and both of you start hitting on the ladies. youre bound to find someone.

 

you're effin funny

 

so...i'm sorry, but i guess i'm kindda trying to ask the non-male population of the forums...
if someone would try to approach you about having a threesome, how should they do it?
also, we have a gay club in our town, should we look there?

 

No love (advise) from anyone? PLEASE...someone, i know there's gotta be people on here that have had threesomes, or that can give some advise....

 

Go to craigslist.org and find the "erotic" section in your state/city; you can put up an "ad" saying what you're looking for, check out other people's ads, exchange pics, etc (though if you meet someone this way, I definitely recommend meeting the person at least once before actually having the threesome). You might also be able to find out about swinger parties on there as well. A gay club might work (I'm assuming you've decided to focus on a female partner), but keep in mind that a large portion of the lesbian community probably aren't interested in ffm threesomes. Still, it's something to consider as well.

 

as far as the gay club goes, there is always plenty of fag hags, and they arent the ugliest girls either, pretty girls love gay guys LOL (that was in no way meant to be offensive to anyone)
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well, the whole craiglist.com thing...kindda creppy, and the gay club thing, ow would you go about approaching someone? it'd be different if it was just, say me, trying to hook up with a guy for one night, but i think that it would be different for a couple