I am going to get marry (any precautions) ?

I am going to get marry any precautions any recommendations you would like to tell me plzzzzzzzzzzzzz.

Thanks in Advance.

 

Yeah. Don't.

 

Pre-nump

 

Those are ignored in the divorce court. You can't trust them.

 

think long and hard....and I don't mean in reference to your penis.

How long have you two known one another?
Do you have the same goals, wants, needs?
Are you on the same page, as far as your life situation?
Have you or the other person been married before? Are there children?
My basic thinking is that someone that's been married before should generally stick with other divorcees, not bachelors. If there are children involved, you really have to think long and hard over how you feel about these kids. you have to love them too, not just think of them fondly.

It's difficult. Really think.

 

Run away!!!

 

tell her when shes getting fat, (it will only get worse if you dont)

 

erm...get a bigger penis?

 

Make sure your wife doesn't see this post because it'll probably start a prewedding fight and you won't get wedding sex.

 

Everyone told me how terrible marriage is I didnt believe them. I know you wont listen to me but I wish you the best. You have already made up your mind.

 

www.nomarriage.com

 

Run, run as fast as you can, dont look back

 

Green, that website was stupid.

If you're going to give marriage or children advice, wait until you have experience in either area please. 15 year olds, contrary to their own belief, don't know near as much as they believe they do.

 

I agree that the site is stupid, but I also believe it is worth viewing, because if you're dumb enough to fall for it hook line and sinker, than you really shouldn't be marrying and will make a great green card for a foreign woman.

 

I would have to say I agree with the no marriage site. Time to find my a foreign gurl. Yes I have been married/

 

I think marrage can be a wonderful thing with the right person. Most of the advice about not getting married seems to come from people with a bad experience with marrage. So it seems to me that to make a marrage work it has to be with the right person. Hopefully with any luck I have found that right person. I have so much in common with her and she is also so my type it is just plain freeky. I just hope for my sake that I am her type which judging from the signals from her seems to be the case.

All I can say is to search your heart and see if this is right.
Matt

 

You know, I always love it when assholes with baggage (or, what is more likely, trolls posing as assholes with baggage) try to ruin things for everyone else. Just because it was bad for you doesn't mean every human being is going to have a bad experience with it.

And Green, you haven't even experienced anything and already you're bitter. You're a little boy whose never had a real problem in your entire life, and yet you're constantly telling people how stupid they are for wanting kids and that all marriages are evil. Grow up.

 

"Just because it was bad for you doesn't mean every human being is going to have a bad experience with it."- Deeply religious people don't count, unless you are one, in which case you should be telling me to stop my sinful ways and go to church.

"And Green, you haven't even experienced anything and already you're bitter."- Oh no, I've been on planet x the past 15 years.

"You're a little boy whose never had a real problem in your entire life,"- Why are you calling me "little boy"? I have tons of REAL problems in my life, the problem is I don't have the ability to FACE those problems, like how am I supposed to end racisim, hate?

"and yet you're constantly telling people how stupid they are for wanting kids"- I don't think I ever used the word stupid. Kids are good, without them we would die out. I don't think I ever said anything about why people shouldn't have kids? I think I said wanting kids is a dysorder, but what I meant was kids are a pain in the ass to raise. I also said that society places to much value in having kids today, and that society is brainwashing people into wanting to have kids, but I don't think I ever said people are stupid for wanting kids.


"and that all marriages are evil."- I just said that in general it is a bad idea to get married. I don't think I said "all marriages", just "marriages".

"Grow up"- You need to stop misquoting me, without using quotes. So why don't you just use quotes? It would be easier for you...

I'm not going to live in your feminist fantasy. Life is a struggle, and any group of people placed in isolation would immediately break down and revert to a state of nature.

 

Marriage advice: Don't

Children: Wait, get married, get a job, go go go

I don't like being categorized as a 15 year old, because I don't feel like I fit the description you gave in your quote. I feel I am a conter example. I don't think I know everything, because if I did, I wouldn't do all this unnecessary homework. I know a few things however, and I stick with them.

 

This is a smidge off topic, but that anti-marriage site really reminded me of episode of American Dad. In the beginning he is complaing about his marrige- because his wife doesn't adhere to his every beck and call. Just at the peak of this frustration, his job moves him to Saudia Arabia where women have no rights. Finally women obey him because they have no choice in that society. This makes him real happy and denounces america and "selfish american women".

That site advocates marrying foriegn women for that reason. Call me a selfish american bitch, but I'm glad I live in a society where I can stand up for what I believe in and not have to "obey" a man because of social dogma.