A racey Saturday ~

You should go listen to some John Lennon and learn to be a little more accepting.

 

Oz!, shut the fuck up. You aren't helping the situation. This man is driving her to cheat, and I know you arent this idealistic. So stop being a douchebag.

YBH, unfortunately I have heard of a lot of women in a situation just like yours. Maybe he is physically incapable, or gay?

 

Heh!!! I was just kidding, but... could this be?

hmmm...

Is his favorite color fuschia?

(heehee...)

 

ok i dont get it. 3 years without kissing your husband? this needs some more explination than just 'on the couch' .... right?

for the record, my dad is the same way. he has been on the couch for some years now and i believe is because he and my mom couldn't speak to eachother without fighting like 5yr olds. now they get along a lot better, and i really wish they would love eachother again. however i dont see him getting back in bed anytime soon. im not rushing anybody bc iv seen some wicked fights man. but if they arent going to be happy together i want them to divorce. i even tried to talk my dad into leaving my mom several times and he tells me he won't untill my brother and i are older. i understand the financial issue, but keep in mind it hurts me more to see them unhappy than it would be to see them apart. oh, and if it means anything they have been married for 18 years. how long have you 2 been together?

 

or...maybe she just enjoys publically publishing the fact that she cheats on her family?

am sorry.....mebbe i'm old fashioned....but if yer cheating.....then i got no sympathy....finish a relationship before you start a new one.....yellow has three children for goodness sake.........nobody drives anyone to cheat...unless yellow has lost the ability to make an independant decision...or do you wanna tell her children that daddy drove mummy to kiss another man....and is that before or after daddy finds out?

You know i'm not this idealistic? interesting......

 

accepting of what? people like you??

lol.......i've seen what happens when a cheating partner (husband or wife) finally gets caught......i just hope your hubby has enough sense to get a good lawyer....because he ain't the one on here bragging about it...and he aint' the one who should get stung for your actions, if yer ever brave enough to tell him

 

ok i had to add something else.
my dad is always very tired. that could also be a factor. maybe ur hubby needs a couple days off work to rest, and good full home made meals. my mom never cooks and he gets very pissed about that

 

oh oh oh oh and one more thing.

he's banged other women.
shes banged his cousin.
but i am pretty sure im the only one who knows. sssssh
maybe you arent the only one with a secret

 

Well maybe you are that idealistic. Either way I was just mainly talking about the way your posts were coming across. I do agree with you about ending things first, but we don't know her situation. The economic factor is huge. I have been cheated on before so I know how devasting it is. But the way I treated the girl was very different, I really valued her and showed her that. So I don't see how this guy can expect for her not to cheat. I just don't think it is necessary to be a dick because of her desperation.

 

LoL~ Well Oz, you sure are a peach aren't ya?


Anyways, This was probably my mistake airing my dirty laundry. I have learned that the HF's have some wonderfully nice and supportive people and alot of idiots. (Oz)

So, Im done, and will from now on keep my happenings private. Sometimes I forget that there are some real jerks here because I have met so many nice and sweet people here.

 

Oh, one last thing. My husband and I sleep in the same bed, He is just asleep on the couch from about 7pm untill I wake him to come to bed. Weekends he usually naps on the couch on and off all day, untill about 7pm.

 

My "girlfriend" was up from VA for thanksgiving. I haven't seen her since August and it was so terrific. Even better 'cause we spent some time together before planting that kiss. Oooh.

 

I want to get kissed

 

Yeah, seriously speaking.. it's been so long since I've been kissed I've been having dreams about it >.<

 

i despise kisses

 

yellow so you are telling me if you attacked him he would say get away from me woman. LoL

 

Absolutely, it happens everytime. Although I haven't tried in about 3 months because I got sick of being told to get away.

 

follow your heart mama.

 

since deep kissing is ok, my friend peter here is interested in a long hard deep kiss with you my lady

 

HAHAHAHA Ok *pucker*