depends.....if you and yer ex ain't interested in starting new relationships with others...and can keep the distinction between fuck buddies and a relationship seperate...i see nowt wroing in it... a woman i like keeps fucking her ex.......seems to work for her.....
My problem is that my ex doesn't want to do anything, even thoughs he wants to. She thinks its bad to be a "fuck buddy," but its driving me crazy!
dont do it. i'm saying this because this is EXACTLY why i dont trust men, and why i dont do relationships anymore. my guy broke up with me, then talked me into still having sex with him. he said he still loved me and everything. as it would turn out, there was no longer any attachment there whatsoever for him... all he wanted me for was the sex. and it hurt. sure, i pretended to be ok with it. but c'mon... inside i was breaking up. its just never a good idea.
I still hook up from time to time with my ex. There's nothing in it but lust and we've talked about it many times. There's just something about being familiar with it already that is comforting.
In my situation I told her that we would be friends with "benefits" sort of. I didn't add on stuff like "I still love you." I also told her there is a lot of sexual tension between us when we hang out as friends. Then I said, why not just do it if we both want to? She just gave me some exuses about how it will "complicate" things. I think that she just has a negetive association with the concept of "fuck buddies." The idea of having a "fuck buddy," with a random person is a little disgusting. She is my only hope, at least for now.
I did a no no and fucked my ex once while she was going out with another guy and the guilt trip is awkward.
It depends whether there are still emotional ties. If so, then don`t do it because it will just fuck your head! However, if it`s just animal attraction, lust whatever.... go for it!
