There is no such thing

There is no such thing as true love.. it is a simple lie. I have found nothing but pain and sadness when i fall in love, and it was never true.. So here's to life.. rock out!

 

You are only 21. You (or I for that matter) cannot truely say that it doesn't exist. That would be like saying aliens don't exist when there is no evidence to prove or disprove it's actual existence. You have only lived a 4th to a 5th of your natural life. You may be surprised someday up the road.

Love is intangable. It's always harder to believe in something you can't see, especially in such a potentially cruel world.

 

Yeah, man. You're still young, so don't give up hope.

I've always believed in the genuine, true love, even when I experience a heartache.



Oh, yeah.... But your name's NEGATIVE red... *sigh*

Be more positive first!

 

Negative red, it's not that there "isn't" true love, it's just that there "is" bad luck. Just remember, a successful relationship doesn't rely on just receiving, but also giving as well. For one has to give for the other to receive.

 

Besides, in order to appreciate real love, you must first know the ins and outs of true misery. You would take love for granted and it wouldn't feel nearly as satisfying.

 

That pain is what indicates to me that true love exists. And once true love is found good sex can be learned as long as both partners are willing and patient.

 

negativered- just because you haven't experinced it yet, doesn't mean that true love doesn't exsist. i once felt just like you- i gave up on love completly and than suddenly it sort of just fell into my lap. it was brief because we both had things in our own lives we need to fix but i will never forget him or the love that we shared. even if i never feel that way again- at least i know what it's like and honestly that's enough.

 

well, i'm 34, been engaged twice, had quite few longer relationships, and would say: neagativered, you might be right. At the time, i thought that i was madly in love, and then, when i woke up (=separated) i realized ,what a mindfuck. I do believe in love, but not inside a relationship... relationships are like a prison, either he is the underdog and adores you, or you are, (and he is secretly wanting to fuck somebody else), I promise you, it ain't that easy to have a relationship. Oh, and; jealousy, have never encountered jealousy in your relationship? being "together" is like chaining your selves to eachother, volontary blindness (towards the rest of the girls/boys around). WAKE UP. to live in an illusion of love/perfect dream isn't my ideal state of being, i want the real stuff.

 

Maybe you still haven't found that right person.. I also haven't. So keep on trying..

 

I bet I look like an idiot now. I'm 17, how could I find that right one..

 

Hey guys.. thanks for the comments. Maybe i was quick off the mark to say that true love does not exist... its the harsh reality that it isn't all holywood as we want it i guess. I know there is only one girl for me, and i think she knows it too... but i guess its what keeps us apart..

 

i don't like the notion of everyone only having one person for them, though...i think most of us come to a point in our lives where we end up with the right person for us and the rest of our lives (and only when we're good and ready to settle down), but i think that we all have many soul mates and potential lovers out there...i've been in love a few times myself in my short life, and i imagine i'll experience it a few times more before meeting the one i want to settle down with when i'm old...i feel that 1 out of the 3 times i've been in love have been true...with my most recent ex, the love was mutual and reciprocated equally....but our lives changed and we both started going down different paths, and our love for each other changed. it is still true love, but it's not "untrue" but it's no longer a ROMANTIC true love...

 

Nope, you don't look like an idiot at all. Your comment was sensible and kind. And you WILL find the right guy for you. When and how, I can't really say... But you just stay positive, and good things will happen.

Who knows, it just might be sooner than you expect.

 

Hey I'm 17 too It happens, trust me Jana... I'm expieriencing it first hand right now
Sure it's sad at times, and it's really hard work too... Atleast for us... But in the end, at the end of the day, when I go to bed, I only remember the good times And I'm so madly in love with her

 

i believe there is, maybe it just didn't happen at the right time

 

Without those hardships and break ups, love would than be considered differently. And I'm only 17, but i've experienced it first hand, many times. And hah, I'm not too young too experience love.

 

how can you experience true love many times!? That sir, is a lie!

 

to lakshen and Alternative thinker: Thank you, guys! You helped me a lot.. thanks.

 

Oh, you're welcome.

 

Anytime Jana You're a lovely lass, great spirit... I'm sure you'll find the one