Hard-on b4 oral sex?- opr let her work it up?

hi, im new to the forum and that , i was with my girlfriend once on her couch at her house , jsut me and her in the house(im 17 by the way) , im quite a nervous self concious guy and that, and we were touching each other and that , and she was undo;in my pants and i didnt have an erection, i felt nervous and that , as it would of been my first time for anything sexual in my life , what's my problem? , should i of jsut let her work my dick , or should i of bn hard b4 hand , when i was relaxed with her and i knew nothing was going to happen i was pretty hard , whats going on? , i rlly wanna get layed i aint being shallow or anything , i just want to and i am worried that i will not get hard prior to sex , should i jsut let her work my dick for me ,and i will gradually relax in to it or what , pls help!!!!

 

The more you worry, the less likely you'll be to get hard and stay hard. Just relax and have fun. It's normal to be nervous the first time you engage in sexual contact, but try not to worry about it. Let her play with you, or play with yourself in front of her. With time, you'll grow more comfortable.

 

Chicks dig guys who can spell. Why this one is still with you is beyond me. Wait, is she retarded too?

 

You just gotta relax. It takes time to be comfy with sex and foreplay. Subliminally, you tend to get nervous about things like that the first time. Don't worry, it happens to everyone. Just be comfortable, and don't let yourself think about anything but making each other feel good. Just get into it.