fuck!!!!!!!!!

i cant fucking believe this!!!!!!!! i jsut walked in my bros room and i saw him fucking my other bros wife sister. damn! i know they adults and stuff but still! its 1 huge shock for me coz hes engaged to another girl. anyway hes gonna confront me about this. any advice? this has to be one of the biggest surprises ever while im stoned

 

Tip #1: Smoke more weed.
Tip #2: You didn't see shit.

 

hahahahaha lucky bastard

 

South Africa? I don't know how people do things down there, I'd be careful. He might kill you or something. You probably know better than me

If it was in the states I'd bribe him for weed.

 

the bastard doesnt smoke. itleast i got sumthin on him. now if he tells my mother im still doing drugs ill tell his fiance n my mother what i saw. hes so scared to face me now hes hiding in his room. anyways i confronted him first and told him im 1 up on him. haha bloody sucker! hes probably not gonna sleep! hell after seeing that i cant sleep. the only thing i regret was my quick exit out of there. i should have let them have it. i mean how could they have sex in da same house i live! my family is very conservative and things like this are not allowed in da house!

 

Bribe him for money for weed.

Hell, I would.

 

Heh, you mean to pretend you're as conservative as them?

Good for you, though.. now he can't touch you.

 

you've got him by the fucking balls. someones getting a new bong. and a nice car. and..

 

dude are you seriously thinkin about blackmailing your own brother. thats fuckin cold man im sorry but that shit is wrong. unless your bro has done this kinda thing a bunch of times before u shouldnt use it against him cuz loyalty between siblings is the only thing that some people have and without it your family might be in for a crazy fucked up ride through dramaville.

 

Yeah, I wouldnt say to blackmail him, but he should be able to keep a secret of yours if you're gonna keep one of his.

 

you should ask if you can join in the action

 

id tell him to decide who he wants more, his fionce or his sister in law's sister. be like the next 1 you choose to do stuff with better be the 1 your sticking with. and dont blackmail him man.. hes your brother.... not to mention blackmailing anyone is wrong!

 

its not like he kept quiet when he ever he caught me doing shit. in my family theres no "loyalty" shown to me. yeah but fuckit. finally the "drug addict"(thats what they sometimes call me) got something over him. after what i expierenced in my life coz of them(been sent to rehab a few times) i say its revenge time.

 

have to agree with ragethebong here - you didnt see shit.

see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil. Your loyalty lies with your brother.

 

fcuk, before you do anything rash, please think about what your doing! You may well be opening pandoras box here, and when stuff like this comes out it can cause the most horrific rifts and family feuds. I understand that maybe you feel betrayed by your family in the past, but you dont want to be the one thats going to be forever responsible for potentially ripping the family apart. People will get hurt, people will take sides, and you will be the one that comes out of the other end worst off.

By all means tell your brother one on one that you dissaprove of behaviour and he needs to sort his shit out, but it IS HIS SHIT, not yours, dont get covered in it man.

 

If you go ahead with your plan of revenge, you have to be sure that you are prepared to live with the consequences of your actions, whatever they may be.

 

let me explain why this whole situation to me is morally wrong. im gonna give u guys a little background info. the girl my bro is screwing is married and has a child(4 months old). she and her husband are seperated and from what i know she has no intention of going back. she says the guy troubles her alot and hes also on drugs. also from what i hear he has no intention of giving her a divorce(in islam only men are allowed to give da divorce. women cannot.) now whats troubling me is this.

if that bitch(before last nite i liked her alot. now i dont) was half the person she is, she wouldnt be sleeping with my bro. besides she is still married(seperated doesnt count as divorced) and hes fucking engaged. thats adultery and its a huge sin. if my mother gets to know about this she'll kick her out of the house. my family(including extended family) thinks shes so innocent and stuff. thats what i taught before last nite. obviously thats not true. i also doubt her story of her husband. theres always 2 sides of a story and my family only knows her part.

the girl he is engaged to was in school with me and we are really close. i really feel for her. i think the other 1 is trying trap my bro. hes such a fucknut he cant see it! this morning she couldnt even face me in da kitchen. im thinking of confronting her about this and telling her what i really think.

 

you people must be wondering why ive become so serious about this matter. now its not about blackmailing and getting back at him. i taught last nite was like a once off one niter. today i asked my bro in a serious manner what the fuck hes doing. he tells me it just wasnt about sex! now wtf does that mean? i asked him what about his fiance and he tells me he doesnt know. i think hes fucking confused and its all because of that bitch!!!!!! arrghh it makes me so angry. and she has a fuckin child. he doesnt know what hes getting himself into. i never even ask him if he used protection. if shes pregnant(she'll probably want that) i think his life is gonna become 1 big rollercoaster ride.

 

Sounds like your brother is very confused about his feelings for both women, if he said its not just about sex than that implies that maybe he has fallen in love with her.
But, to be a bit objective here, technically the other woman isnt doing anything wrong. She is seperated from her husband, therfore she is not commiting adultery. Your brother howerver is. He is engaged to be married and therefore he is the one at fault.
Although morally the other woman should have enough respect for your brothers fiance and their relationship (not to mention your parents house) to have not gone near him with a barge pole.
If she has been through a difficult seperation, and her husband abused her or was a serious hard drug user, then as a compassionate human being you have to take that into account. Her baby is only 4 months old, she has been through pregnancy, birth, and the breakup of her marriage all at the same time. That cannot be easy.If your brother showed her even a little kindness, in her vunerable state I can see how that would have quickly progressed into something more.
Please dont get the wrong idea, I am under no circumstances condoning what she has done or defending her, I think she has behaved appalingly and has broken the trust of your family, but I can see why it has happened.
The person who is going to get hurst most in all of this is probably going to be your brothers fiance, she will understandably be devestated, and your brother will be very lucky if she forgives him. But you have to take into account the fact that he may not want her forgivness, as he may no longer want to spend his life with her. People do change, and he may have just outgrown the relationship but not found the courage to tell his fiance for fear of hurting her or upsetting the family.

Please take sometime to absorb everything thats happend in the last few days, before you react, you need to talk to the other woman, you need to talk to your brother, maybe even talk to the other womans husband, only when you have found out what really going on will be able to make an informed decision on how your going to deal with the situation.

On the other hand of course, you could always just stay out of your brothers business and leave him to sort out his own shit in his own way. I think under the circumstances this may be the better option for all concerned, especially you.

 

well she is still married and islamically even though shes seperated shes still married and commiting adultery. i understand where you coming from but whats wrong is wrong. i decided im not gonna get involved coz i cant judge her or him. maybe it is real love. how the fuck would i know? but i still feel shes the one taking advantage and not him. anyways thanks 4 da advice gixer. it gave me another perspective on the matter. ill just have to see what pans out in da coming days.