Being single

I swear to god, I've never had a meaningful relationship wiith a girl beyond: "Robert you're a nice guy!" THAT's IT!! I have a lot of friends who are girls, but I'm not particularly interested in them, mostly because they have all vowed never to fall in love. Is there something wrong with me? Or is it everyone else who has a problem?

 

thats why i say, get a mail order bride....

 

do you ever ask a girl out? because you can't bitch about not being in a relationship if you're never willing to make the first move. And don't ask out friends, they don't count... once girls put you in the friend box it takes an act of god to get you out of it

 

girls are so fickle man.......

they all say they want a nice guy....... but when they find that nice guy, they usually look somewhere else. they come more attached to guys who are mysterious and/or dangerous.... actually I think women like to have drama in their life, and when everything is too quiet and perfect, they dont want it......

actually what IM saying is, most women do not know what they want.

 

oh shit, not this song and dance...

Well, men dont know what they want either.. They say they want a nice funny girl who is down to earth, but then they just go for a lucious ass and nice/big tits...so yeah, cant use that one cause you can do the switcharoo and say the same about males...

 

Are you looking in your league? Seriously, if you are only looking for the hottest girls around, they may not be looking for you.
(no, I am not one of them...it is just an observation)

 

yeah friends dont count when you try to get a date.....like someone else said..you cant get otu of that friend box.......just go out and date man...go party, enjoy life...eventually a relationship will happen for you...dont try to force one on yourself cause that will be very stressful.....relationships are awesome man, but they take A LOT of work...The most meaningful relationship i ever had is the one that was the hardest and hurt the most, but i learned so much from her and she and i are best friends now (After not speaking to each other for a year).......before you can be happy in a relationship you have to be happy with yourself, its cliche but true, dont go searching for someone else to make you complete unless you are already content with yourself. peace.

 

I don't think anything is wrong with you. I think you have a defense mechanism that kicks in, as all of us do, one way or another. And you have to think, maybe these girls you know have been really hurt in some past relationship, and they don't want to go through the pain again, so they have vowed to themselves never to fall in love again. And maybe you ride with that, and consider them safe territory, because they are unaccessible. Just a thought? ....

 

maybe you're gay.

 

To be completly honest with you folks, I think my mind just overanalyzes the possible disaster scenarios that could play out. Its not that I don't trust people, I just think too damn much. For the record I'm not gay. (Not there's anything wrong with that!)

 

You know, that could be it too...you would know better than anyone, I should think; lol

 

I think if you worry about it, it only gets worse. I KNOW that's a cliche, but it's a true one, for the mostpart.

 

nah, im sure theres nothing wrong with you. just start aiming low, maybe that will better your situation.

 

I love when people tell people to lower their standards.

Is there a better way of saying "YOU'RE UGLY"?

 

i wasn't implying ugliness


just a way to evade rejection.

 

suuuuure you weren't.

Hey, we were all thinking it!

 

being single can be awfully tiresome sometimes though. I don't really do much to try and attract people though, so I really shouldnt' complain too much

 

think of it this way, better to die alone then to be crippled by the sorrow of your one true love dying slowly and horribly before you

 

exactly!

 

I want Shroomy Girl!!!