okay girls and guys.. how do you get over someone FAST

i cant stop thinking about him and i know he isnt thinking about me and its driving me mad and insecure.. what can i do to not think about him

 

Get a hobby...it will get your mind off of him.

 

have a one night stand with someone else.

 

think how happy you should be because you are not wasting your time with someone who doesn't appreciate you.

 

i sit and watch them. i find all the flaws in there personality. i did that with my ex and it worked like magic. find things that piss you off about them

 

1. Tell your self that you are going to get over this one day so it might as well be today
2. Feel sorry for them for no longer having the boon of your presence.

 

i get wasted and sleep around for a coupla months....seems to work pretty well....

 

Just block it out of your mind for now, go back and deal with it at your convenience.

 

just remind yourself of the bad points that this person has (everyone has them, so im sure you can think of some)

also remind yourself that you will look back on this in the future and youll laugh at yourself or at least it wont hurt anymore....

remind yourself that you can use the space in your head to do things that you wouldnt be able to do if you were wasting so much space there with thoughts of him.....

 

You can't get over him fast. But you can go out and occupy your mind and also find things about his personality that aren't what you want, etc. You are better off anyways.

 

find a rebound guy. I know that sounds horrible but if I'm really hurt I entertain the first person who show's interest in me and then flaunt it in front of whomever broke up with me. I'm immature like that, I don't think I've matured past 13 socialy. I'm sorry you're hurting Nisha):

 

conscensus is in,, someone else..

so id say pull a train with whatever crowd ya like an pic the best dick...

hell tween the one night stands and shit,, its yer easiest way...

 

*I* would never really try to get over someone "fast". I think the whole mourning period is all natural and even necessary. I then start thinking about all the good times so that I can always remember them as fond memories.

With things like this, it's generally a good idea to take your time, anyway. But that's just me.

 

Yes, jumping on the next guy that happens to be standing there to take your mind off of the pain is like chopping off a finger to distract from your headache...

The guy MIGHT actually fall for you and if you are just in it for a one night stand, and he isn't, that will just end up hurting someone else. Your best bet is to rethink who you are. Sometimes making a change in appearance can help you transition, plus it shows him that you are a different person in the sense that you want to put the past behind you. Don't change to get away, but instead look inside yourself and find the things that make you wonderful and jump on them.

 

exactly what I was saying(;

 

I think a truck is the best way to get over someone fast, with a car they sometimes get stuck underneath and it makes a big mess

 

Why is everyone so negative around here. This person came with a genuine request for help. Be nice guys, you are hurting my feelings.

 

Not when they run over you with flat tires.



Sorry to hear your upset Nisha. Getting over someone you've loved is never easy. It sucks, rips your heart out, and makes daily life feel like shit. I suppose I'm not helping. Time, friends, and keeping yourself busy is what will get you through it.

 

I like your answer. Rebound is not the answer. You could end up hurting someone else. Take some time to heal from this, learn about yourself, what you really want. Something went bad with your boyfriend. You broke up. Maybe there is something to learn from that experience and grow stronger as a person.

 

nisha?! peanuts?! i havent seen you two in forever