nope. it's not a big deal if I don't orgasm. But if I fake it, how will my partner ever learn what does lead me to an orgasm?
i have done it actually. i prefer faking when i REALLY don't feel like explaining why i did not orgasm.
yeah when the guy is like talking himself up saying how he'll give u like 50orgasms and then he just doesnt poke your tickle button it just feels like the nice thing to do to bite your lip and squeel . its bad i know. but its better then when i laughed at the guy.
hah, I'm sorry but if some guy is dumb enough to boast about how well he can give orgasms without bothering to find your clit, he deserves to be laughed at. ah, machismo
only if i'm with somebody incredibly demanding in this way (i'm not going to orgasm... but i WAAAANT you to orgasm, let me keep trying and trying until i rub you raw... or, did you cum? no? well why not? blah blah blah)... but i think it's worse when they get off, then get off of you and go to sleep without even trying.
i laugh at the guys who asks their partners if they have reached to orgasm... or questions like "are you close to cum?" Dumb question!! Dont do it if you dont know how to make her cum or cant understand when she cums..
Never faked it; it's so counterproductive, only encouraging methods or behavior that shouldn't be repeated. And I like honesty. If you can't be honest in bed, can you be honest in the other aspects of the relationship?
does it matter if your honest in a tent? i had to. we'd been there for about 2hours and i really couldn't cum, maybe because it was freezing cold and i was starting to get bored. i faked it but i didnt seem to work, he wanted me to have another so i told him i needed a pee and didnt come back
Yes. Sometimes it's just enough already! ..and I don't feel like explaining why I haven't came. Fortunately, or unfortunately, I'm not sure which: my boyfriend can tell if I fake it, and I cant remember the last time I did..it's not really a problem. haha, I must be a bad actress. How embarassing it was to say "yea you're right. I faked it!"
haha. You're like Kramer on Seinfeld. He said that once. How did you fake it? Couldn't the woman see that..nothing had been produced in the interaction?
I faked it once too... I was dating this girl that I was becoming less attracted to... one of the last times we had sex, i just wasn't feeling it and started to lose my hard-on. So i faked an orgasm and by the time i pulled out i was soft enough to make it appear like i had cum. Not like she was gonna check the condom...
I've never faked it... most guys just don't care, it seems. Maybe I was just doing the wrong guys, haha, but most guys that I've ever been with couldn't do it. They could have tried for hours, and it just wasn't happening. Hell, I was with a guy for two years and still rarely got off when we had sex. And now, I don't have to, either. Of COURSE the husband CARES whether or not I do, and he'll occasionally ask if I ever get bored of sex or anything, because we've talked about it before and he knows what kind of "luck" (lack thereof) I've had with other guys, but he's the first that could get me off without even really trying... EVERY time.
I've never faked an orgasm, nor would I.. Why would I waste my time faking it when I could spend my time helping him to get me there?.. During sex I want to get off and I'm going to do so.
