I've had one month's worth of consistent sex experience with my partner now and contrary to many fears that I have acquired in the course of reading stuff on the internet, it didn't turn out to be a big deal at all. Well, the first couple times it wasn't really great indeed, in that it wasn't quite our mutual experience but a one-sided one. But since our 4th day of having intercourse it's been great and we've had it about two dozen times for now. For one thing, I've had no difficulty getting it hard and make it last and although my partner experienced some, tolerable, pain during insertion (and withdrawal) and some time thereafter, mostly because of the tightness of her vagina, less of the broken hymen, she liked it. She orgasms in 5-10 minutes after experiencing consistent thrusting (she moans, shakes quite a bit and gives other pleasure related signs). Most surpraisingly, I was afraid of cumming too quickly for her but this didn't happen either. Well, at some point during the intercourse, I do come very close to orgasming, but when I feel I am about to cum, I switch to lazy, short and slow deep-thrusting and start thinking about something non-sexual or my mind goes blank and in this way I keep on pumping. Also, as her nipples are very sensitive I start sucking/pinching on her breast/nipple during this time and this also helps her cum quicker and I also have something to concentrate; although I do engage with her in a somewhat extended foreplay to make her horny and wet (mosly french kissing) and we only tried missionary style and doggy. Sometimes she cums two times in a row and is about to go into a third round before I have my first orgasm. Is this quite common or is it practice that makes it perfect? What are your experiences, guys?
Dude if its her first time there a huge chance she was faking the two and 3 times. Not to put a damper on your solider or anything but she proberly is. Put some porn on and watch that while shagging that will make u sum.
Uh huh, sure. If you are so sure she came that many times you would know if this is common practice or not. -Litos
well cuming 3 times vaginally might be kinda rough.. well depends of course how old is she and how much you talk about it with the other part. I think it is better to ask and then judge..
This morning we again had an intercourse, spooning style (both partners lie on their side and behind each other). We went on in this position for about 40min. She cummed twice while we were "spooning". Her first time she orgasmed in about 7 minutes roughly and I was trying to delay my orgasm by slowing down at appropriate times thereafter, as I felt my orgasm mounting, and eventually made her cum a second time--in about 40 minutes. She finds them pleasurable and and enjoys them. Shortly after that I cummed myself. I noticed one thing, that I get longer lasting hard-ons in the morning and can better control myself during this time. And spooning is a very "easy" position as you each have a bed to lean on and you could go lazy literally for hours while in this position without quite getting tired. As far as oral sex is concerned, frankly, I've never had a strong interest in it and she is not eager either; I am quite sure she'd think of it weird if I proposed; in fact when we tried her-being-on-top position once, it lasted like 10secs and she jumped off, but we are gonna work on this... I think most important thing during intercourse is to keep your hard-on as long as you can and not to cum too quickly if you really want to get HER to cum. I also noticed that from the beginning of the intercourse till the time she is about to cum her vagina remains extremely wet and slippery so I don't get enough stimulation from frictions and that surely helps to delay my orgasm; but when she is nearing her climax she becomes much tighter (If I stop I can literally feel her contractions during those few seconds) and this is when I need to slow down if I want to give her another orgasm (it takes her longer to reach a second orgasm and so far I only managed to give her two and she enjoys it). I guess she is quite sensitive down there so her part should not be downplayed; because before we had our first intercourse, for one year we would engage in some light foreplay, like I would rub her in her groin area from the outside of her clothes and she'd usually cum within 10 minutes; that's as far as we would go until we started having sex a month ago. Given my limited experience, nonetheless, I still think men have their fare share in this to do to please their partners
the words FAKING IT springs to mind. Maybe you should ask why she is. i have known women to cum that many times but never while having intercourse for ages etc. Maybe she's bored.
she totally enjoys it. no question about that. yeah. forgot to mention in my previous post that when she's about to cum she starts moving her body rythmically and in this way helps me do thrusting, so sweet, even though she's got very little experience is a shy person.
