Yup... To qoute a friend of mine: "She is very, very, very, very in love with you. AND she is seeing Matt's brother(Guy in my paralell-class)". The story: About a month ago, mabe two I started flirting with her. I've gotten her number and MSN and when I'm around her she has that special thing in her look that poeple who are in love get when she's with me. But even though I think she likes me better than that guy, I wonder what the fuck I should do... Okay, I can move on(I do still flirt with other chicks too. call me player, whatever.), but I kinda like her. Sooo... My options are: 1. RUN!! 2. Treat her like a friend and try to cool down things a little, so she wont be as attracted to me as she is. 3. Flirt, fuck, leave. 4. Make her break up with the guy and get together with her.
Put yourself in the other guys position, would you like it if you had a gf and she ran off with somone else without warning. If you both feel the same way you should sit down with her bf and talk about it. But do not get into cheating, who knows he might even be into sharing
Just be a friend and act like you know nothing. It will drive her fucking crazy. Women like that shit. HAHA
I know... That was my second thought too! That it would work the "wrong" way... She and and her boyfriend has broken up... When they were still together I had sent her an SMS, where I asked if she wanted to go to the cinema(I know, cliché, but I thought what the hell, one time must be the first.). She didn't answer, but her boy friend found out. He said, she's all yours to me earlier today... Said he didn't like her anymore. Hehe.(Maybe he's just messing with me. Doesn't matter) Now i'm not going to talk to her for a little while, but I'll start to flirt like hell with other chicks, THEN I'll talk to her.(After maybe 3-4 days)
I don't think that you should do any of those things... I Have to agree with Nickmast, being a woman, that is SO true...lol; my advice to you would just to be to lay back and not worry about it, if she loves you like you say she does, then it will happen. Trust me here.
well...if she is more interested in you, then she prolly shoudlnt be sticking with her current boy jsut because she's with him now...its not really fair to either of them. you might as well hit it up
GIRLS usually like to play bullshit games although they don't admit it.(No offense, ladies...it's just true) So, just play cat and mouse awhile until she gets horny enough to pressure the situation.
I would hit it and not put any time into it long term. She is proberly screwing another guy neither of you even know and laughing her ass off at both of you.