are we really that good??? serious query

okay, so last april my girlfriend and i started having sex. we were both virgins and after a month, we got the hang of it. we have sex about 4 times a week, sometimes more (remember this).

my issue is i was wondering how normal our sex life is. neither of us have anything to compare it to (nor do we plan to). working with the statistics of at least 4 times per week, is it unusual that there have been under 10 times that she hasn't orgasmed? by under 10, i mean it's probably around 6 total. not to mention that we ALWAYS orgasm within 5 seconds of each other.

don't get me wrong, we're happy. really happy! but i've read that it's so hard to get a girl to orgasm. not for us. i KNOW she doesn't fake it, she sometimes shakes afterwards. well, she's faked it twice and told me about it immediately afterwards.

i mean, she's a dancer and very agile. i'm not incredibly long down there but definitely thick. we experiment so much sexually (oral, anal, toys, unusual positions) but we always come back to the position with her on top. we both love it. is this normal? do we really have this great of a sex life at 17? i dunno. just wondering.

 

are you expecting her to orgasm from penetration alone? because only one third of women can do that hon, most of us need clitoral stimulation as well. Do you go down on her? Does she get close to orgasming from taht? or from fingering? While penetration is extremely fun, most of us won't cum from just that.

 

i'm not expecting her, she does! i go down there but she'd much rather have me finger her or be inside her.

 

Women can definately have an orgasm from sex only. I didnt believe this until recently and I have been having sex for about 5 years. I think that the reason that you are having so much luck is because, as you said, she is on top. Until recently I hadnt found anyone I felt comfortable enough with to get on top and just so what had to be done. When a girl is on top though, she can control rhythms and where the most pressure is. Chances are that she knows what she likes and just does it. Once you learn to orgasm during sex, you can do it almost every time. Good job on figuring it out so quickly!

 

yup, I think you are!
Go celebrate!

 

yes, a celebration is in order.....fuck her good for us

 

There are all these statistics about what is "normal" but at the end of the day, that is just the majority of those surveyed. Every person and their body is different. Try not to worry about what you are doing compared to others. If you are both satisfied then it doesn't matter. But, you're doing pretty well. I know a lot of couple that nly have sex once a week or three times a month because of work, study etc. My advice? Don't worry unless there is reason to. Have fun

 

While I have heard the same statistic, I have yet to come in contact with a woman that couldnt orgasm from intercourse alone. ~shrugs~

 

hey scottish lass nice pic

 

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