Love, Hate, & Indifference

Discussion in 'The Whiners' started by Burbot, Nov 10, 2005.

  1. Burbot

    Burbot Dig my burdei

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    ok, spo here is the question:

    Are "Love" and "Hate" two polar opposites, with indifference being in the middle on the continum [a line], or are "Love" and "Hate" equal, each with indifference as an opposiete [like the V shape]

    personally, i think it is a line? how about YOU? :p
     
  2. rhasta.penguin

    rhasta.penguin No more hippy...ugh

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    duuude, i was just thinking about watching donnie darko today :D
     
  3. Burbot

    Burbot Dig my burdei

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    :D i love that movie...but i don't get the connection :confused: havent seen it in a while
     
  4. sitareric

    sitareric Banned

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    Hmmmmm.... I think there is alot more to it than that!....

    I think love and hate are the same, We take things in from the universe to use, and we take it for granted.. these three potentials are of the infinite array within the human expireince... So I could never say that hate is the opposite of Love... I think that hate is a contrived act of Love..

    You know... I think what im trying to say is that the very nature of hate and love to me has to be something more than what we make it to be..
     
  5. rhasta.penguin

    rhasta.penguin No more hippy...ugh

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    are you kidding me???? thats the same exact line they use in the movie :D


    except i think love was on the right...and hate was on the left...



    and then i think donnie said something like "well i think the line is bullshit! you can seperate all emotions into two categorys!"
     
  6. Lodui

    Lodui One Man Orgy

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    So if I truly loved hate, would I be a hypocrite or a genius?


    I think I need to go lie down. :rolleyes:
     
  7. rhasta.penguin

    rhasta.penguin No more hippy...ugh

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    or wait...maybe it was fear that was inplace of hate...god, now my memorys all messed up :D
     
  8. SunshineLovePeace

    SunshineLovePeace all you need is love

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    i think it is the line...
     
  9. Burbot

    Burbot Dig my burdei

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    ahha, yes, that was awesome :D now i remember, and it is the crazy Christian lady who defends the pedo with the "God Is Great" sweat shirt :D ahha
     
  10. Lodui

    Lodui One Man Orgy

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    Their just slightly more complex survival mechanisms evolved for psychotic killer apes.

    Stop watching Dr. Phil.
     
  11. rayne_lyric

    rayne_lyric Member

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    I think the line... Because love and hate are total opposites, but the V also makes another point of indifferance is another choice and not just strattleing the fence, maybe? But to better illustrate that point, if you beleive it, I would say go with the "v" but put a line between love and hate as well, so as to make a triangle. That way, they can all be seen as their own individual choices, rather than 2 extremes and a place to put the undecided people...
     
  12. you can neither love nor hate someone and still not be indifferent to them.....
     
  13. Micha

    Micha Now available in Verdana!

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    Yes[​IMG]
     
  14. hippiewise

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    i think this is an excellent question. to me it is a line that can be crossed very easily. it reminds me of the love/hate relationships i have been in and when i was a rape crisis counselor would deal with. i have met so many women in my life, and i was one of them, that thought being abused was love. how many times have i heard from an abused woman, "he didn't mean it, he really loves me", while they stand their bleeding and brused infront of me. i have found that since i was an abused child i used to always seek out abusive relationships,. thinking this was love. once i confronted my abused past as a child, i stopped seeking abusers, learned to love myself and found an unbelievable man to love me. abuse isn't love, love doesn't hurt, it feels good. so that's what this wonderful and thoughtful question brought to me. thank you for posting it.
    hippiewise
     
  15. stinkfoot

    stinkfoot truth

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    To try and conceptualize emotion graphically... I think it's less linear and more circular with both love and hate at the top- at opposite sides of the top of the circle with indifference being at the bottom. If I love someone passionately and they betray me I can very quickly hate them just as passionately but indifference takes time. Love and hate are both hot... indifference is cold.
     

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