I'm stuck in a love triangle! HELP ME!

Ok, heres the case... I've been friends with this guy for 2 years. We are sooo sooo close. Recently it kinda turned in an attraction... thing is... he's just broke up with his girlfriend who is SUCH a nice girl (you know the libran types) who is also my very good friend. She absolutely LOVES him but the feeling isn't quite as mutual, even though he obviously still feels something for her....

When I first met my guy friend, it wasn't long before we were going out and I had the most amazing relationship ever with him and it seriously felt like love (Even tho it lasted 6 weeks!). It had to end because of certain circumstances but we soon became really close thru friendship.

So we get to nowadays... things have happened like a week after they broke up between me and him (nothing too bad mind u!) which are supposed to be "no strings attached" but i know i have feelings for him and i think he feels a lil bit the same way.

You get the idea...

WHAT AM I GONNA DO?????

 

decide which way your heart faces, whether it is towards him or towards your friend...decide what is best, and follow it with all your strength.

i can't say you should go for the guy, or leave it due to your friend...i don't know how your heart feels, only you do...you need to decide, you probably already know the answer but for some reason are uncertain whether to follow it

 

I love him with all my heart and soul but she is such a nice girl and doesn't deserve to be hurt like that.

 

have you thought about giving it some more time?

 

yeah that would be my advice - give it some more time.

Coz if your friend is still in love with him it will damage your relationship with your friend (the girl) terribly (been there done that, worst mistake ever). Sometimes doing this even results in your friendship being destroyed which would suck immensely.

also you might want to give it some time in case it's just him being on the rebound. If you carry on with the "no strings attached" theme without telling him how you feel you're going to get more hurt than anyone else (been there done that also) coz it does hurt like hell, well, when/if they find someone they would like to be more than "no strings attached with". He needs to know. Giving it time would be the best option because it isn't jumping straight into something; you have time to weigh up your pro's and con's; you have time for your friends love for your guy to die out and heal over with acceptance of their break up; you have time for the bond between you guys to grow stronger and will be able to know your affection for one another greatly.

Hope that helped. Hope you follow your heart too. Hugs and Kisses

 

yeah. do what peace sells said. could you see yourself with this guy in a year if all works out?

 

I had fling with a roomate and he started seeing my friend after that. He decided to date her. I was hurt butlet it go. Our fling ended and we stayed friends. She was a nice girl. But later she found out about us. She was not happy. If that friend means a lot to you then don't get serious about the guy. Just let things be. Later if it is meant to be then what can you? Hopefully she will understand. In the mean time dont tell her.