Nice Guys Finish Last?

so is this true? im kinda beggining to think it is.

 

yeah it's true, in my experience anyway.

 

Yep pretty much. Some how I always end up with the bad guy and then run to the nice one who told me not to. All girls have a cycle.

 

definately

 

Yuuup! Dude, just take a look around you. Funny, challenging, playful "bad" guys get the chicks. They(we) realize for example that chicks luuuv sex, "nice"(boring is a better word) guys "play it safe", pretend to be asexual not to offend the chicks and so forth. It's just silly

 

I can't be sure if it's true.

I decided a year ago that, the point of my life, is to disprove that statement.

We'll see how that ends up.

 

I tried the bad boy, got pissed off with it (and we didn't even get to fuck) so now I'm looking for a nice guy with a streak of bad in the bedroom, but overall is still really nice and caring and wonderful.

 

Epiphany time....
YES!
Pricks catch all the breaks... get the pretty girls, cushy careers, etc.. Niceness is a tool for others to take advantage of. Nastiness should be taught in school because it is an invaluable survival skill.

 

My reproducctive success improved oncce I saw women as objects rather than people.
Why?
It's all there in animal psychology. Attractive traits for males to have are risk taking, healthy and balanced physiology, social status, wealth, and able to dominate others around them.

When i was a nice guy girls liked me because I was strong. Why? Because I can protect them and provide a good seed. Once i became a jerk, I met more of the criteria. nice guys, all nnicce guys would be well advised to loosen up, and get into mischif a bit more often. I don;t abdicate becomimg something you're not. After all, I still like DnD and that's not a bad guy trail.

 

It is true. I'm living that little quote, so to speak, LOL.

 

I shoot for bad boy with good intentions. It is true. Dont treat girls like shit but dont fall for the chase are you will get lead around like a trick. So dont let yourself be treated like a bucket on a string.

 

so basically...for all the good guys out there who like a chick whos not in the nice guys yet have to wait till they realise their mistake? that kinda sucks.

any1 else realise that being the nice guy only gets you good friends...nothing more? wow im SO last

 

yeh man thats totally true - i have to choose between being a nice guy and hoping not all women are dumb enough to go for the bastards or just turn myself into an utter ****. its damn harsh.

 

yep. get real obvious about being an asshole. it makes it easier for us non-insane women to pick out a good man. run with it! wallow in all the pussy that will be flying at you like rain falling form the sky...i need the entertainment. but don't forget, the quality of relationships you have will match the quality of woman you find. and low quality women are drawn like magnets to low quality men. and don't think you're the last dick she'll straddle. sac up men! good luck and may god and a good physician be with you!

 

bwaaaahahahahaha

 

Why can't guys just be bad, but not mean or abusive? Personally I just have the cool, and am witty as fuck and I experiment with people. I think it's more about just having fun and stopping if she doesn't have fun and learning to move on. And guys: Don't get to hung up on chicks that aren't good for you! Same thing goes for chicks...

PS: Most of the "nice guy"-behaviour is just selfish and manipulitive shit anyway. They let the chick rule'em like there's no tomorrow. Why? They think they'll get the chick. They are usually horny as f., but doesn't show it as it might scare the woman of...... Wierd world, huh? Guys have a tendency to get more hung up on bitches too, but not in the same degree.

 

Interesting observation, and I'll be the first to say that there is some truth in it. But you gotta also give us credit for being sensitive towards the girls we admire. We just like for them to know that we'd HATE the idea of hurting them, even if it's damned near impossible to actually accomplish. We try hard, but sometimes they get hurt regardless.

But there's nothing wrong in experimenting as long as you don't force anything. I don't think I can object to your approach to girls since you don't sound unreasonable. At least we can agree that those men who only care about their own pleasure and not that of the girls are the selfish ones, can't we?

 

Define "nice" and "finish."

If you mean "boring and dorky" and "get ass" then, quite possibly, yes.

If you mean "considerate and kind" and "participate in an honest, loving relationship" then no. Yes, bad boys are always intriguing and generally hotter , but forgive me if I'm wrong when I say that we girls want a boyfriend who loves us, underneath all that badass-ness.

 

You guys remember Richard Ramirez?



I would totally fuck the Night Stalker!

 

even though he has michael jackson's cheekbones?