Soul Mate

SOULMATES?

Here's a reality check!

Humanity as a race is going through a major transition at this time. This results in changes both physical, emotional and spiritual.

Often when we are making these changes, we attract someone to help us through this phase of our experience here. This person the Transition Person.

Usually this person does not remain in our lives, or live up to fantasies we may have created about them, but they do serve a purpose in helping us move on and into a new space.

The Transition Person can be a friend, lover, or both.

Here is an example...You are in a bad marriage or relationship. You know you need to move on, but as with most people you don't want to move forward until someone new has come into your life. Many people hate living alone. [Remember that in most separations - one partner has found someone new while the other is mortally wounded!]

Enter the Transition Person. That person is someone you have attracted to help you move on. Now comes the sticky part...Often you think you have attracted that person as your life long soul mate. Wrong! Usually that is not the case. That person lives out whatever karma they have to help you move on...then moves out of your life. Your soul is confused. But you have to understand their role in your life and accept it - allowing time for your soul to heal from the issues of both relationships.

Always keep this in mind when dealing with any relationship - either both of you want the relationship - or you don't! That's it. If one of you is ambivalent - it will end. Don't push the energies.

If you are waiting for the Transition Person to return - Give it up!! If that person was supposed to be in your life they would be there! That's it! No excuses today! Look at your relationship!

You and your partner or ex-partner are either on the 'same page' or you are not!

The Transition Person can also be there to help you when you relocate as your soul tells you a move is needed. Most people move to places where they know other people, if moving alone. The Transition Person can be that person, but may move out of your life after helping you relocate. The karma is over. You are on your own. That is what this game is about anyway!

We all attract Transition People at one time or another. They just seem to show up in our lives as if by synchronicity. With this person - watch your heart and do not fall in love easily. Most likely you will get hurt.

In Metaphysics the Transition Person is the one who helps you 'wake up' to the greater reality of the universe - and to healing whatever issues you have been dealing with. This too is a person you can get very friendly with...but beware ...do not fall in love as now you are dealing not just be 3D stuff but with spiritual as well. Falling in love with a metaphysical partner then loosing them, can be the most destructive of all especially as you are building a new YOU. You can become way to co-depending on Transitional People at that time - as healers, teachers, authors, etc. I have learned how quickly people in this field become lovers - which has also been my own experience. We meet - begin a transition - spend time together - quickly feel we are in love. As metaphysics is an ongoing journey into awareness - one partner soon moves on. Metaphysical people are free spirits who experience many people, places, and things.As humans we are not created to be monogamous. That is a social condition - but there are variations on all themes - as karmic bonds can create long relationships.

If you are ready to make change in your life...look for the Transition Person you will now bring in for you to experience with. They can be fun. You really can enjoy the time if you don't allow yourself to get too co-dependent on them and allow them to move on when one or both of you are ready.

Honor what you and the Transition Person have shared, then move on.

This is Fall - a time of transition and

graduation to things that will help your soul grow.

Your Transition Person may be about to knock on your door.

Please be there to open it, and don't be afraid.


Go with the flow....of creation....your creation! Trust it!



THE INTERIM LOVER



You wish to end a bad relationship with a spouse / lover. You have put up with all sorts of abuse and unhappiness but have stayed with that person because: you were afraid to be alone
felt comfortable enough to stick it out
couldn't imagine --or feel worthy of--a good partner
financial or family obligations
kept saying you would leave but didn't have the guts to do it!
But you were waiting for another person to come along first

Enter the Interim Lover! You sense the karma between you the moment you meet and a strong attraction. They have everything your partner lacks and most of all understands you - you are on the same frequency.

The connection is strong. You think about this person constantly - and they feel the connection - as if you tune into each other's thoughts. You see soul connection! You connect with each other's thoughts and energies.

Sometimes this can become an obsessive pattern.

You call, email, make plans, laugh, share your lives, have great sex!

You finally leave your first relationship as it no longer works for a 'happily ever after' with the new partner. With all of the "perfect ingredients" you think nothing but blissful thoughts. You never stop to think that the universe has brought this person into your life just to help you get away from the first partner.

Suddenly the "bubble is burst"! The fantasy stops. Reality Check.

Obsession - High maintenance as you try everything you can to get the energies back to where they were. Perhaps the partner disappoints you and decides to move in another direction. Perhaps the partner said they would leave their partner for you - then decides that they cannot leave or once they have left - being alone and free is more suited to their needs than being with you.

You are crushed! You question what went wrong and why. You must now come to an understanding as to why that person came into your life in the first place - how they helped you grow, experience, and move forward - and that no one is here to bring you the happiness you must find for yourself on your 3D journey into awareness.

You must now seek your personal power and continue the journey that was given to you when you first attracted the Interim Lover. How have you grown from the experience? Are you upset because you did not get what you want or expected? How long did you really feel the Interim Lover could maintain this experience while dealing with their own issues? Can you get past the anger? Doesn't everybody after a period of time?

After a bad relationship ends you must find out who you have become and what you have learned. You are not the same person you were when you first started the initial relationship. You have grown in both relationships and reality now takes on a new frequency for you.

If you feel you need professional help from a therapist -seek this out. Friends and family may help - if you are willing to listen.

You wonder about the fantasy about eternal love and romance and whether it will ever find you.

You may feel alone and depressed. This is better than giving your personal power away.

Please do not return to your original partner in desperation or out of fear of being alone. Being alone is a time of growth. You do not have to feel lonely. This is your journey - use it wisely.

Peace The Wiz

 

sin dolore , no te hasses feliz ....sin amore , no sufferes mas .

 

Bien ella preguntó por almas gemelas.

 

okay so i totally believe that story you posted there wiz, but i do believe in soulmates as soulMATES which in my opinion doesn't mean you have to or can be together all the time, or maybe it is your transition person in every life you've had or maybe a soulmate is someone who you are in soulcontact with, forever, that doesn't mean it has to be good ofcourse.
and to also add something in a weird language:
bueno borregas huevos burrito.

 

im gonna build my soulmate outta play-doh...we'll be friends till the end...

 

HAHAAH But you only want to be friends with your soulmate?

 

yes, i believe in soulmates

 

Now I do

 

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the way i figure it, if they don't know you're their soulmate, then they probably aren't your's, either, and you're just putting more into something than you should. they may be very similar to your perfeect mate, but close doesn't win you the cigar.

 

I've met a couple of soul mates in this life, but it hasn't ever worked out...can't guarantee a specific outcome no matter how connected to the person you feel, unfortunately. At least that is my experience...

 

best plan ever!

 

I totally have that...

 

yep, i believe, cuz i gots mine!

we both knew it from the start

 

blah blah blah blah blah!! soulmates?? is there really such a thing? not in this life time.

 

there is no way in hell that i will ever believe that every person has ONE SOUL MATE.

to me that just sounds ridiculous.

 

I thought I was your soul mate!

 

dick cheny n beelzabob ....alan greenspan and mamon

 

Thank you all so very much on your responses...they have all been read and taken to heart. I guess just by reading this, it only goes to show the different roads people take in life. I respect everyone's opinion, because that's just what it is...I believe in soulmates, just starting to doubt if there is one for me; lol...Heather

 

i believe in soul mates... what the hell, i believe in lots of things like ghosts, fairies, aliens, *shrugs*

i just dont believe there is always only ONE. and being that everyone is all "one" anyways... there are numerous possibilities being that the possibilities line up correctly... which rarely, if ever, happens.