Should you Forgive hertbreak?

Discussion in 'Hippies' started by Hippie_Chick_27, Nov 7, 2005.

  1. Hippie_Chick_27

    Hippie_Chick_27 Member

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    Hey thinking about my friends that let me down they helpped everyone hurt me really deep n it was really low n now there saying sorry but does sorry really cut it for something sooo low?
     
  2. Hannah32

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    hey are you the one who your friends mums wouldnt invite you? because if your are then i dont think you should, they sound well mean and are probably just gunna briing your self esteem lower and lower. you need friends that are going to make you feel good about your self. i no this is what people always say but find a club or something that you are interested in and hopefully there will be other nice people there. i would say hang on to they just for a little while because even though theyre not very nice you may meet other people throgh them at parties or something.
     
  3. Hippie_Chick_27

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    yes indeed i am, n i guess ur right its just akward joining things where you dont know anyone or being alone at places...but through them could b better...
     
  4. Number6

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    Yes you should forgive them, it is unhealthy to carry anger and resentment around with you, it makes you bitter and cynical, but forgiving does not mean forgetting.
     
  5. Nathan11

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    Heartbreak is part of life.
    It's a bummer and most deffinatley buzz-kill, but if you don't experience, you don't experience life, man...
    Love & loss are two parts of it, man.
     
  6. SaintStephen

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    If u think they're gonna screw u over again then no. If they are genuinely sorry then yes forgive them.
     
  7. damian5000

    damian5000 Banned

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    I had a BEAUTIFUL GF who on a daily basis for years was being ridiculed and stomped on by her siblings and mother. She couldn't let them go and move on because they were "family"...Which to me means nothing other than "familiar". But to her it was all she knew and held on to unrealistic ideals (within her situation) of what things would/should be like.

    Long story short.... In the end... She joined them and became like them as opposed to moving on. She hardened her skin and (in my opinion) lost what made her inside beautiful.

    If you are really 15, and your friends are around the same age... I think it's normal for MOST (not all) teenagers to have erratic and non-thoughtful behavior. If you think it was malicious and purposeful that they hurt you, or that it is something that has happened in the past with them I would move on to a new group of friends.

    But...Whatever you do...Try not to ever let these things change your kind heart. Surround yourself with great (kind, loving, giving) people.
     
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