I don't know if I've just been with the wrong guys all my life but only one or two of them ever really moaned and most didn't do much of it. For the most part, girls moan a lot but trust me, we could hold back. Moaning isn't involentary for me but sensations feel even better (for some reason) when I moan. So how come guys don't moan more often? Even if it only comes out in soft grunts I like to hear my lover vocalize his satisfaction without nessisarily saying anything. The louder the better, of course. Honestly, one guy I was with was so loud he had to put a pillow over his face in fear that his neighbors were going to call the cops thinking he was being tortured. I seriously think I would have gotten off the second anything came in contact with my clit without any previous stimulation.
I'm not exactly sure. I think they just think it's too theatrical, and it's hard to get in the habit no matter how nice it is when you do.
Seriously they should. I'm one of those girls that takes a long time to get worked up and get off. I get really wet but still the build-up is slow. Except if a guy moans, or talks or does a combination of both. I simply lose it and gush all over. You would think that would be inspiration enough to get a guy to moan.
I think guys should definitely moan, cause that reeeally turns me on! I think it's soo hot to hear the guy moan!
Sometimes I have to tell my husband to be quiet or he's going to wake the kids up. Course, he could say the same for me. *lol* But I must say that my moaning is totally involuntary. It just feels so good, that the moaning just comes naturally.
For some it is involuntary, for me I can be almost completely soundless. In some situations if I'm extremely turned on or a guy hits the right spot I can't help it. The reason I've practiced this soundlessness is because my roommate is in love with me and if I have a guy over I try to respect his feelings without having to go completely without. He tends to throw little tempertantrums the next day and acts really bitchy so being quiet is sometimes worth it for my sanity.
moaning is sooo good. I used to be really quiet though (years of masturbating at home taught me how), I had to reteach myself how to moan so my partner knew what was feeling good without me having to try and form words (I'm not very good at that when I'm all stimulated). I do wish guys made more noises though... my first bf was good at verbally letting me know what felt good (without words usually) but we were each other's firsts too. I love moaning though... except there are those occasional times where I'm SO stimulated I cant' even moan, or really move much either, like when my back is kissed/licked properly. mmmmmm
dave and i had this neighbor who made WAY MORE NOISE than his lady. it was kinda funny. dave doesn't really make a sound. until the end.
most of the time if I do moan to let my partner know whats going on they are afraid Im gonna cum which was no why I was moaning so i just stick with pillow talk.
I don't really talk much at all during sex, but I love to make noise. Hearing a girl moan, whimper, and scream are some of the best parts of sex.
mmmHmmmmm... i love moaning, me and him both moaning... mmm sometimes i like to be quiet and just listen to his labored breathing and occasional moan when he's really getting into it... yum, and moaning definitely makes my sensations more all encompassing too