Ok so i lost my virginty a lil over a month ago. my girlfriend was a virgin also.. well the first time i went for a good 45 minutes or so.. and now after a few more times.. it is taking forever at times its complicated because we dont have alot of time.. unlike some guys i will try and finish off but it just takes a long damn time, i understand some peole woulnt take this as a problem and at times im proud to be able to go on and on.. but when i am tryig and she has my attention.. it isnt because of her not turning me on.. but we will get into it and she gets wore out well before i have a chance to finish or we will have to leave and not be able to finish.. any advice to speed it up if need be?..
Find a girl (or guy) you're intensely attracted to, on all levels. An explosion requires two things: fuel, and a spark. If the fuel's there it'll burn baby, just let it burn.
how long does it usually take you to cum while masturbating? if you're a quick masturbator then maybe try some of the tricks you do then... if you like to take a realy long time masturbating then maybe you can try cumming fast on your own and that might help? i've read the same things for men who cum too fast, except for them to masturbate and try to take as long as possible, bringing themselves to the brink many times before letting themselves cum.
the thing is is when i do i go all out .. its not that shes not turning me on .. because ..My damn!.. i can go for a few hours and at the end really be trying to let it go and it still takes a damn long time..
You don't say how old you are, but I'm assuming you're young. So your problem is a little unusual. There could be so many reasons and it's hard to tell without a lot more information about your situation. The first thing that comes to my mind is, are you on any kind of medication or drugs? I'm usually a very quick cummer, that is unless I do various things to control it. But, I've found that anytime I've been unable to cum, or to cum quickly, it's almost always been due to some medication, like antihistamines for allergies or colds. Those types of drugs will definitely affect your orgasms. Even alcoholic drinks will do it - too much alcohol will even keep you from getting an erection. The other thing is that you mentioned you don't have a lot of time. That's a 2-edged sword. You don't have much time so you need to cum quickly. Yet, not having enough time to get really turned on and horny will keep you from cumming quickly. Is there some way you can start thinking about having sex with her long before you get together? Look at some porn, or something - masturbate a little - without finishing of course - in other words take the time to get in the mood before you get together. I've found that if I've been thinking a lot about sex or have been watching some sexy movies or something, then have sex with my wife, I'm already about ready to explode before the sex even starts. Sometimes I'm so turned on ahead of time that when she starts playing with my dick, I'll have to stop her hand from moving because otherwise I'll cum way before I want to (if I stop her, she knows why, just from experience). So, anyway, I don't know, man. I hope this helps a little.
my first time took aroudn 45 minutes.. next time around 2 hurs next time only had an hour or so and i was tryin the last fe w minutes to finish and finally did.. next time we went for around 3 hours and kinda wanted to be done so was tryin to and finally did.. the next day took abotu 45 minutes i was tryin to hurry then though.. Like i have said its not from alchohol or any medication.. maybe its just me. hell i was always kinda nervous of being a quick cummer when i started having sex but now thats the least of my worries..
I had this same problem with my last girlfriend and it's hard to say what to do other then get really turned on by foreplay then go all out. That always did the trick for me when we didn't have a whole lot of time, and she'd go crazy orgasmic as well.
I assume you are using a condom but even if you arent this is the trick. Start off with a quick bj to get things going have sex until she has had her fill then back to bj. She may need to talk dirty to you while doing the bj, play with your nuts, maybe even your ass. Thank me later.
