i really dont know what to think about that mess anymore except that it bothers me....a lot. but we're completely in love now....which we were last year as well, just not officially together because we didnt want a relationship. he says he doesnt regret his past because it just means he has experienced all that he wants to and wont be wondering later on whether or not he should or shouldnt have, like say when we get married he'll b wondering...but i really dunno what to think about that either
I think that a 20 year old having sex with a 15 yr old is aweful. If I were that girls parents I would kick some ass...and when it comes to the LOVE aspect, I would say that the 20 yr old is making himself believe he feels that way because he badly wnat s to get over the other girl. As for the 15 year old girl loving him back...well shes just to young to know what she's feeling, and the relationship will never work out. She may feel as if she loves this guy but the feelings are most likely brought on by that fact that it is probably her first real boyfriend, hes an older guy so she feels extremely good about herself because she can date an older man and lastly he is probably the guy who took her virginity, and I know that most girls have a sense of love for the person they first have sex with and later down the road realize that it WAS a false sense of true love. 20 year olds should not be dating a 15 year old, I'd say a 20 year old and a 17 year old is still a bit young, but acceptable.
I think thats too big of an age difference. But as far as loving two people, i know that is possible. If its in a dishonest way, ie one doesnt know about the other, then its wrong. I personally am in love with two women, love them both like crazy. They both blow my mind, and inspire my heart. And they both know it.
Disturbing? Yes. Not about the age, but about the "in love with two different girls". If they don't know about one another and aren't both cool with it, then it sounds like a love triangle where someone is bound to get hurt.