I truely feel you......... honestly. my father was a drunk for many years... and throughout my highschool years he was pretty bad, then he quit on his own. he started again when my younger brother, jamie, got married..... and it got pretty bad...... I was living at home after I dropped out of school, and yes I had to deal with alot of shit with him. one thing with alcoholics is you cant ever tell them that they have a problem and that they are a drunk, because they will belittle you, your family..... etc...... and everyone else has problems other than themselves...... I had to hear about all the problems that are in the family, my moms side, and even my dads relatives...... everyone according to him, while he was drunk, had problems being addicted to something....... one uncle was liquor, one uncle was women, one cousin was coke...... etc etc....... and there were plenty of experiences I wouldnt even begin to talk about, especially not on a public forum as this.... they are way too embarrassing to mention......
you should stick a butt plug up inside him....if i ever woke up with a butt plug inside me, maybe some gay porn on the tele, and old sock in my hand covered in vaseline and pictures of immediate family members strewn about hte bed, i'd reconsider ever drinking again
When it can't get worse it can only get better right? Things will improve, just keep on keepin on. I do know how you feel. My ex-stepdad was an alcoholic the whole time him and my mom were together, 16 years, since I was 3. My real dad was in and out of the picture. Bout two years ago it came to a head, and he tried to run us off the road, slammed his car into ours, and punched me and my mom. Luckily my younger sister wasn't home at the time. Now two years later, my mom has been drinking, and has another liquor dependent boyfriend. I haven't even heard from my dad in about eight years. So I do understand where you're coming from. I'm currently looking for an apartment for me and my sister and saving up money to get out of this crazy house. Once we, and you are able to get out of the bad environment, it will be so much better.
man im so sorry things are so bad for you lisa im sure you will come out of all this ok and find your happy place........hugs
My dad was that way. Everytime I saw him he was drunk or getting drunk. Then he became a fucking crackhead. I haven't seen him for 5 or 6 years, even though he only lives a mile or two from my house. He's too busy raising his stepkids to even think about me and my sister. Fuck deadbeat dad's.
aww thats horrible - my dad did that for years and years -he doesnt anymore. Its shite to see parents in that way - they are ment to be strong and people you respect and follow. Not like that at all ***hugs***
Lisa I feel for you! you are such a nice girl--this is shit!!!!! a hug for you lisa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! xoxox terry
That is just Juggs way. Lisa I have never been there before but I imagine it sucks and I hope that things will get better for you.
That's awful that you had to witness your father like that Lisa. I'm sure that has to be frustrating as well as scarey. I've witnessed alcoholic loved ones extremely intoxicated like that, seen them become violent and so unlike themselves, and it's always scared and angered me to see them in such a state. Many, many hugs sweetie...