WHAT THE HELL CAN I DO? i have been dating this girl for 3 weeks, stupidly fell in love... (how... i dont know) and now her ex has been calling her at 6 am... saying how he misses her... loves her... and all that other stuff... now as of last night i am single... only because she says that she needs some time to mend her heart from her relationship with him... im torn at the seams. this girl was what i thought was a perfect match for me... i have had pleanty of relationships in the past with multiple crazies... and now... the first decent girl in years pulled the all time classic line... i think we should just be friends... but yet she says she needs time to mend her heart, and that upon repair we will resume dating... is that a lie? gimme some feed back
yeah babe, it can happen... as for the opening poster, the girl is confused and still a bit heart broken. she's trying to spare you pain as well it seems, and is just not ready to give her heart to soembody else yet. you gotta give her time to heal. i can't say if she'll want to date you after she's better, but if you force yourself on her she definitely wont be happy.
Hehe, yeah But it can be quite scary Don't worry about that girl, give her some time, she'll come along Trust me I mean, it takes some time, but she's just scared... What ever you do, don't let go
I agree with the captain - Game over There's more than one decent girl out there, keep aat it sport. And the one that gets away is not one you date for 3 weeks. She's the one that slips by and you never even knew.
Great advice... If you want her to take out a restaining order against you! If you care about her at all, you need to give her space. Love is not about "I want what I want", it's about "I want YOU to be happy"... Too many people confuse love with desire for possession. Right now, none of us has talked to her to know what your chances are. It may be that she is still in love with this ex, which is why she doesn't want to get involved now. It may be that she doesn't know what she wants right now. It may be that she really likes you but needs time to be on her own until she is really over this other guy. It may be just a convenient excuse to not date you. Does it really matter? The end result is the same -- she needs space, hopefully she needs you to be a friend, but if you're there for her as a friend you need to not push anything more than friendship until she is ready. If that doesn't work for you, you need to move on.
Riiight... Ofcourse none of us know what she's like and all that, but seriously... Wtf! A restraining order!? You don't have to stalk her or any shit like that, not letting go can be done just by keeping in touch with her, and maybe help her with her emotions finding out what's really the problem... Not just ditching her cause she's uncomfortable, that'll probably make it even worse on her, depeding on if she loves you or not, and how much...
you just got some competition thats all. try being sweet and caring and most of all chicks dig a guy who can understand and give some positive feedback, then tell her how you feel without playing the blame game
thanks 4 the opinions... its been a while since the last time i posted on here... years... used to be called sourorgy if that sounds firmilar to any one lemme know
