I need advice from guys.. and girls, please help!

Hey, i really need some help.
Here is the situation: i have been living with my boyfriend over 2 years. It has been perfect! The way that he treats me and everything is fantastic. We love eachother and i have nothing bad to say about our relationship. But lately (last few months) sex has been really sad issue, it feels like he doesn't care about it at all. we used to have sex all the time and it was important for both of us ( he is just so sexy there is no other way)
I have always been very open minded about new stuff and i L O V E sex, so if i only knew what should i do to make him feel alive again.
i have asked him about his fantasies but he says that he has none :S

i heard someone say ' for every gorgeous girl there is a guy tired of fucking her' and i felt like someone had hit me.

and if you wonder if my looks have changed since we started dating and if thats the problem then No. most guys find me attractive. i'm about 170cm, maybe a bit too skinny but i have beautiful breasths and long legs. dark sholder lenght hair and big green eyes. (did it sound spooky? sry)

p.s. i'm really sorry for my english. i hope you umderstand what i was trying to say.

 

do it on a kitchen table or somewhere besides your bed

 

I can't imagine why a guy wouldn't want sex. Unless there is something wrong with the relationship that you aren't aware of or aren't telling, perhaps external stress is causing him to lose his sex drive? That's about the only explanation that makes sense to me... it's just wired in our brains to want sex.

 

...and you've been with him how long?

Try this:
One evening while watching TV or making small talk, ask him if he would like to cum on your face. If you says no, he's gay.

R

 

tie him to the bed and have your way with him. might be smart to have a cock ring around too, easier to keep an erection too. er, but if he yells, do let him go

 

probably something wrong happened in the past... maybe he has a problem and he isn't able to explain you...
force him (but be gentle, of course) to talk about what on the earth appened... in a couple the confidece is very important... if there is a problem (of course there is) you both, toghether, have to try to resolve it! you can't resolve it alone!

good luck!
lets we know what will happend...

 

But lately (last few months) sex has been really sad issue, it feels like he doesn't care about it at all.

It means that he has an affair with someone else.

 

maybe, but is not necessary true!
again: they have to talk about the problem each other!

 

That's another thing, we have done everything, we have had sex in every possible place, in every possible or impossibe position and so on. and i've had his sperm on every part of my body

so maybe that's the problem - it has been all too much

ou and he is definitely not gay! he is one of those guys with a superstar attitude - a drummer with a huge cock

 

Has there been any changes in his life recently; new employment, new residence, an anniversary of tragedy (a death), problems in his family? Those common stressors can put a strain on sex and take a toll on even the best libido.

Look deeper into the situation, communicate with him, tell him your concerns. Don't try and guess, ask him. Communication is the one of the biggest factors in having a good solid relationship.

 

Ewwww... drummers with big cocks... those are supposed to be unsatiable...

Maybe he's just thinking of more serious matters than sex. About his career. About bigger plans than your personal relationship with him?

 

the last thing either of you want to hear: go to a sex or marriage counselor! Or be unhappy until you finally drift apart. Sorry, but truth is truth, and no young woman who sounds as nice as you should be ignored. btw, your English is very good,

 

Thank you all!

i guess we'll see what happens. There has been many changes in his life during the time we have been together. and i mean Many. we have done lots of Talking and he always says that everything is ok and he is just tired (for many reasons like work, band and so )
He has told his friends that i am the one and he wants to have kids with me, so i guess he is taking it seriously.

i started to fear that too much talking about our sex life would make it even worse, so i decided to ask your advice.

I never talk about our problems with our friends, so it was really good to share this with you Thank you all!

 

you can never be too sure. even tommy lee has told that these days he prefers to sit by the pool and watch his exotic fish, rather than have sex

oooh sheme

 

haha, what the hell...


how about talking to him...hes not a mind reader ya know..
Just telling him how you feel in a nice way, nothing confrontational, ya know..
Maybe just talking about it will solve a lot of things...

 

hmmm why a counselor?

 

Hey Miss Paintitblack
I think I know what your talking about. I have the wonderful fortune to marry my highschool sweetheart and we are happier than ever. We have known eachother for about 8 years and have been married for almost 4 years. We went through the same thing you are. Sometimes sex can get too routine. Mix it up, have fun, smile, and don't forget to laugh. Good sex doesn't always have to be passionate to be good sex. Fun sex makes it diiferent and exciting. Don't be too serious about it.
This has always worked for my wife and I in the past, She would send me on an errand to the supermarket and surprize me in the bedroom when I got home. Seeing her on the bed with her sexy bed things on really got me going, plus it was a surprize and that really turned me on.
Hope I helped you out.......

 

Damn mystical shroom,

We seem to be on the same wave length lately. You are absolutly right! He's not a mind reader and he needs to know that you haven't been seeing stars everytime you guys go to town. BUt like I said.........the most important thing is keeping it fun

 

Wooo, wow that's a huge pic. Sorry I didn't know it was going to be that huge. Oh well, It's me and my wife camping and having fun

 

haha hmmm it is a huge pic but its a cute one so I guess its okay..you two look so cute (im sounding too mushie like hallmark)

you're right..its amazing how much you can solve and accomplish if you just talk to your sig.other and not just jump to conclusions..
Talking does help things..communication is a must..