25 year old virgin feeling like a loser

Like the thread title suggests I'm 25, still a virgin, and feeling like a loser about it.

I've been chronically ill for the past several years so that's made it really difficult to keep platonic friendships going let alone someone to have sex with (people tend to ditch you when you get sick and don't recover).

I can just see my 30th birthday come around and still be virgin, that's if I don't die of wankers' cramp before then.

Just thought I'd share this with strangers on the internet (what the fuck am I doing?!).



Edited to include the clarification post further down the thread:

 

wtf? why would it make yer feel like a loser, it's sex....important to some, not to others.....but it's hardly the be-all-to-end-all in life


am jealous tho'.......at yer age the first time could literally blow yer mind when yer get around to it!

 

So I've heard. I guess it's not all bad.

Maybe not so much feeling like a loser, feeling frustrated is probably more it. Because I really want to have sex. The need keeps getting greater as I get older.

 

I am a 21 year old virgin and feel like I am on top of the world
My life totally rocks !

I don't why you feel that way maybe its all the coercion and pressure from
your promiscious friends and the filthy media according to which
Sarah Jessica Parker is the ideal slut all women need to idealize
and aspire to become

Better a virgin at 25
than die of AIDS at 21 (it happened to someone I know )

What illness do you have ?
Hope you get well soon

 

ur a chick!!! if u have to fuck a retart or animal i doubt they would turn u down! if they do definately hang urself but otherwise enjoy the cock u spanky little slutface

 

tell me...
which girls on the forums do you consider to be spanky little slutfaces too?
(just checking if i finally became stereotype)

 

That's all true but I think it was Samantha in the Series who had more sex than any of the girls.

Lana, girl you can do anything you want. At your age sex would be greater than having sex at a younger age but might be more painful. Girl if you wanna go have sex then go or meet someone nice and accepts everything about you online then you know get it on and see how it goes. Or you can just turn les and get more sex than you can handle. Tell me, what turns you on? anyways, I would go mor into detail but too rated X to put on here. hit me up if you wanna chat more about this, Im willinfg to listen and help you out. holla.

P.S. dont let pressure get to you.

 

Meeting someone on line was the best thing that ever happened to me. You get to know the person so well that when you meet finally it seems like you have known each other forever. I too have some serious health issues and my now partner knew all about all of them before we physically meet had researched the nastier ones on line and knew what he was up against long before he ever had to deal with it in person. Some times I think having that time to understand what its all about before you actually have to deal with it is great. He is moving over 1200 miles to be with me so that says something!!!


Don't give up hope. If you don't mind me asking what is wrong with you? Have you worked with non medical ways of dealing with it as well? I know I have a lot of faith alternative therapys. Give me a PM is you want to chat about any of it as I know where your coming from other then I am not a virgin but the health issues I understand.

 

DON'T WORRY LITTLE MISSY! I'LL SAVE YOU!

 

i've gotten head before but i'm still a virgin and i'm way over 18. I coudn't be happier with dank mj and rx opiates that are presc to me.

 

I should have known this was a bad idea...


I'll get back to you Chiana and Enonemouse.

 

let me be the first one to spread those legs

 

Why the heck would you be ashamed of that or feel like a loser? You should be proud, there's not many out there like you this age of age!

I lost my virginity at 18 years of age to my husband (then boyfriend), have never been with anyone else, and have no regrets. He taught me everything I know.

 

Don't worry about it, Lana. Sex is so overrated.

 

i wouldn't worry about it - this might sound bad or good but im jealous of you - at least you dont get all the crap that comes with sex, the risk of STD's, pregnacy, the odd are we gonna see each other again and things like that - its not a bad thing for you to be a virgin - if its getting you down that much join a social club thing, maybe one for people with the same thing as what you have wrong with you - or something simular. Dont worry - you are what you are,

 

That does'nt make you a loser, Im 33 and I have never had sex, hell Ive never taken a girl out on a date. I still dont consider myself a loser. Dont think of yourself as a loser because you have never had sex. Look at it this way, you wont have to worry about sexually transmited diseases. i look at porn and yes women turn me on, but ive never had sex either.

 

Lana,


Do what you wish. No one should judge you on being a virgin or not, anymore than they should judge you on what brand of running shoes you wear. We are all individuals but most have forgotten and become sheep! Don't join the herd just to fit in, do what is right for you.
J & S

 

Ignore pressure from society to have sex. Buy a viborator.

 

25 is young...your best sexual years are ahead of you....you haven't really missed out on anything. I know it's easy to say, but try not to worry about your age so much. Start from where you're at...decide what you want and go get it. I'm sure you'll do just fine!

 

what was a bad idea?