Need help

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Mushroom Master, Oct 19, 2005.

  1. Mushroom Master

    Mushroom Master Member

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    Well im a virgin and the girl i would really like is a lot more experienced than me and im always afraid to make moves on her when she totally wants me to because im afraid that i wont be good enough for her are i will not be able to please her. What should i do.
     
  2. tigerlily

    tigerlily proud mama

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    go ahead and make the moves anyway... only through experimentation and practice will you ever become any good, and you gotta start somewhere.
     
  3. benj

    benj Member

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    Does she know you're a virgin? Make the moves on her, and if it appears like it's working and she wants you, then be honest. Let her know you've never done it before, but that you'd really like to please her and learn how to do it right. Ask her to tell you what she likes, sexwise, and what she'd like you to do so you can learn to be a good lover. I think with that attitude, and without pretending like you know it all, she'll love it, and it'll be a great experience for both you and her.
     
  4. APinkBunnyRabbit

    APinkBunnyRabbit Member

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    If she really wants you she will likely be turned on by the idea of being your first sexual partner. Tell her the truth and have a great time! What better way to learn than to get practice with an experienced partner?
     
  5. Rigamarole

    Rigamarole Senior Member

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    What kind of moves? You probably just haven't tried the RIGHT move.

    Of course the move I'm referring to is the Moonwalk.

    Here's a step-by-step guide to doing it:

    http://www.allmichaeljackson.com/dance-moves.html

    Practice that. Do it in front of her. She will be all up on you like honey dijon mustard on a sandwich. And then you won't have to worry anymore about going after her, cuz she'll be on you.

    I anxiously await your report back as to how it worked.
     
  6. Hawk

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    I remember my first time. it was with a much older woman and i sure didnt want to tell her it was my first time. looking back i think it would have been a good idea to tell her. But if you dont want to tell her this is my suggestion. Masterbate 30 or so min before you have sex with her. This will help you last longer. this is going to sound dumb but i remember doing this while we were making love i kept asking her was she ok because she was moaning. now haveing said that make sure you do respect her feelings and make sure she is enjoying herself. i thought i might be hurting her with my massive Penis (thats sarcasim it doesnt come thru when typing as well as verbaly) but my best piece of advice is this wear a condom and relax i cant say it any more simply.
     
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