How Do I Finally Get It In Me?

I've tried having sex a few times over the past couple years, but I've never been able to get it in me for some reason.
I've tried adding lube and doing a couple positions, but still nothing.
Is there a position or something that might make it easier at first?
Is it normal to have this problem at first?
Thanks for any help!

 

Practice with something else?

 

Don't have a toy and wasn't too interested in one.

 

how old are you?

 

22

 

are you nervous? do you think you're stressing out and tensing up? i find that clenching your muscles down there makes putting ANYTHING in there very difficult. i've had serious trouble having sex because of this, and i would seriously suggest trying to put something else in there yourself, get to know the curve of your body. and learn to relax! if you try that and things still aren't getting any better, i'd suggest seeing a doctor... perhaps you have a thick flexible hymen that can't be broken easily and it makes it difficult to get anything too far?.... it's possible.

 

Ask your guy to play with your pussy a bit fiirst...one finger..two fingers...three...have him lick you slow. Try to relax. If you're not comfortable, then maybe you're not ready.

 

open your legs. that might help.



seriously though. relax, man.

 

What?!? You didn't get the manual?! They didn't give you the manual?!? What the HELL. Somebody get this girl the manual. I'm sick of those incompotent little fuckers and their dope forgetting to pass out the manual. How are we supposed to put anything together without the manual? Damnit.

 

what manual?

 

I had the same problem too when my hubby and I first tried to have sex (I was 18 at the time, had never been with anyone before, and was nervous as heck) Took a lot of foreplay, but then we were good to go.

Don't worry, it will happen. I mean come on, women pass babies out of there.

 

hahahaha!

 

it seems like you have a case of Vaginismus. It's common, and with practice can be cured easily. Don't give up hope, just start with small objects first and then move toward bigger things and eventually, a real penis. =) Good luck to you!!

 

There is nothing about the first post that says this is a woman or where exactly they are putting what.

Seriously.

 

Get on top and jump. Let gravity do the work. I guarantee it'll go in.

 

What the guy has to do to make it more stretchable is this, JUST SHOVE IT IN then put his balls in you also that way anything will be able to fit!

 

hey Sara-Rose, I like your new sig!

So you're the one collecting penises then? Have you acquired any new exhibits lately?

 

Lmao

 

Fucking Manual HOGS!!! jesus

 

Well, I think its time to throw that way of thinking out the window and try it, whether you're interested or not.