OKay i have only had sex with one person so far in my life. I am on the verge of having a second partner rightnow, and she seems like she is expecting something really good out of me. Taking that she has only had one partner too, i wanna be her best yet. But i dun talk to my past partner ne more, and i dunno if i was good at what i did or not. I know that girls like guys that are confident, and believe me, i am very confident, i just wanna make sure that i can make it a good time for this girl. i really like her, and i want to keep her! so if some one can help me on some tips on anything, it would help. and please no assholes with smart ass comments. Thank You -Jake-
What i found that works is just coming out and asking. Most of the time they'll tell you whats working and what dosen't. Also speaking from the girls i slept with on top is better position for a women to go. I'm sure someone is going to read that and disagree. Foreplay is a must. When i have sex it isn't for me its for her. Don't ever stop until she stops. I hope that kinda helped. Always think of her first then you second.
foreplay is the most important part. Even the making out before hand can count as foreplay. Make sure you don't scrimp on this. Don't worry about having any specific moves, the best thing to do is to respond to your partners' wants and needs (and hopefulliy she'll respond to yours as well) A lot of people have suggested tracing the alphabet on herh clit with your tongue, I haven't had that happen to me but it doesnt' sound like a bad suggestion. Don't worry if she's not soaking wet, use your saliva for additional lube or a product like ky, astroglide etc.... moisture is key to making intercourse fun for a girl
And definitely make sure you try to get her off, too. And be patient if she doesn't, sometimes it takes a lot more time and patience and practice to get a girl to orgasm, too. I guarantee you, if her last guy didn't try, then she will definitely put you at the top of her list if you make sure you're both getting as much pleasure as possible.
ok u guys say foreplay. don think im stupid but, what exactly is foreplay? I have an idea, but i need more explanation.
foreplay is any activity that you do wih your girl before you actually have sex. no i dont mean going to the cinema and that, (oh maybe it could be a part of that) but things like oral sex, kissing, you name it. you are 17, you should know what foreplay is by now.
lol, yea i do that all the time, its just i didnt know that it was considered foreplay. I like doing that alot. Usually i do that for like an hour b4 i will go for the goal.
If she's only been with one man...she doesn't even begin to know what she likes. Most people don't really experiment much with their first. They just do it and its done. You get the fun job..you get to discover her body and together you get to find out what she likes. Don't rush...be gentle at first and make her feel comfortable. Try giving each other erotic massages and go from there.
Ear kisses, neck kisses, those are almost guaranteed to make her melt. Good foreplay always includes that. Make sure she's relaxed and wet before you go for it, too. If she isn't, it will hurt, but if she is, then the chances are a lot smaller.
