Putting on condom = bye bye erection

Discussion in 'Birth Control' started by spaddy, Oct 17, 2005.

  1. spaddy

    spaddy Member

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    Whenever i go to put on my condom my erection skips town, and i keep my condoms in arms length. Im sure alot of people have this problem to cause condoms are evil. I usually have to put it on then work up my erection again, just wondering if anyone had any suggestions for not going limp during that period of time. thanks
     
  2. SLammon420

    SLammon420 Senior Member

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    wow, i just had sex for the first time a few days ago and once i put the condom on i went a little limp too...not completely limp but somewhat...i was expecting to just having this complete hard-on, especially the first time.i was confused as hell with that.
     
  3. idesign

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    ask your partner to help you put it on.
     
  4. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    try masturbating with a condom on from time to time, to get yourself used to the sensation of it
     
  5. dangermoose

    dangermoose Is a daddy

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    yea it happens to me, just the thought of knowing im about to have to put one on stats to make me limp..heh...its weird...no suggestions though you're jsut as fucked as i am
     
  6. ConcealedCulture

    ConcealedCulture Senior Member

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    Yup, happens here too sometimes
     
  7. Rigamarole

    Rigamarole Senior Member

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    I make her put it on. I mean it's there for her anyway!
     
  8. Spuff

    Spuff Where's my ciggies?

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    It sometimes happens to me a little. I think condoms are horrible and disgusting but my gf won't go on the pill and I want no babies so it's the only alternative ... damn!
     
  9. Fastswitch

    Fastswitch Visitor

    A litle bit of mouth to penis resucitarion BEFORE she rolls the condom on me usually works wonders for my endurance when, from time to time, I sense a flacid attack.
     
  10. johnschlong

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    A good tactic is to have her giving you oral, and while she does so, she takes the condom in her mouth and puts it on without you noticing it. It requires some skill on her part, but you can experiment with this technique. It's a fun way of approaching the subject.
     
  11. wiggy

    wiggy Bitch

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    No it isn't just for her - if she has a sti - thats there for you, if she got pregnant thats there for you as well - typical bloke that say's that - typical dumb bloke
     
  12. ihmurria

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    this only works with a flavoured condom though... have you ever tasted the lube/spermicide they put on most condoms? ick!


    keep the suggestions comin though folks, this is a pretty common problem
     
  13. lovelightlisa

    lovelightlisa Senior Member

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    *sigh* i mean, omg. :$
     
  14. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    Heheheh, good one ihmurria, I was thinking the same exact thing!
     
  15. UrsusKind

    UrsusKind U like Chris Farley?

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    condoms are the least sexy thing in the world (to me any way) so going a little limp is always a bit of a problem. But I'km maried now and haven't used a condom in over a year!!!!

    Maybe you should find a sexy condom (if there is one) you know one that makes you feel like thor king of the **** leader of the labia master of the clit bringer of the fabled tripple "O"
     
  16. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    Why exactly is it there for her only? Are you not concerned about STD's or pregnancy?

    You're a doll but...

    *mumbles* Makes her put it on my ass. :mad:
     
  17. mauricelcassidy

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    i find that im too arroused to have a problem. i dont mind using a condom it protects me and even with her on bc it makes me more comfortable.(although she has been saying she doesnt like having to use one and she wants to feel me without one.so the pressure goes both ways) i do suggest ultra thin however cause you can deffinitly tell the difference. peace, maurice
     
  18. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

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    which would you rather have, a limp dick or a scabby dick.....
     
  19. BugMan

    BugMan Banned

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    Make your boyfriend beat off in front of you. If he won't do that then make him finger your ass while you are tearing open the package.
     
  20. gandhiwars

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    I think the best way is to have the girl put it on you. A girl can be sexy doing anythign practically (I'm sure people can refute that) so if she does it right then it isn't that bad.
     

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