I love a girl

Thanks for the advice

 

hope it all works out for you hilksha.......just enjoy bieng young man......dont get bogged down with all that relationship stuff.....lpm me and let me know how you go on

 

ok

 

If anyone has any other advice at all then that would be appreciated.

 

Well man if she keeps hurting you with this switching back and forth of emotions and it really is bothering you why not just ask her what it's all about? Seriously if I could go back in time the one thing I would have done more in life is spoke up more in these situations. I mean when she says things like I hate you ask her what the hell for, ask her the reasons. I mean she already said I hate you at that point what else is there to fear? Not knowing you just have to sit and watch your mind spin out in a passive mode. Maybe it's hard and I admit I can't exactly remember how hard it was at that age but I'd want to know what the problem is or if it's just some game. Seriously just ask her when these things occur b/c it might be nothing, hell maybe your bud or someone is making up shit about youto her and she thinks it's justified. Its scary to be that blunt but it's more tormenting not knowing whats going on, at least to me.
I like the advice about not getting booged down in a relationship too but I've no idea if you will listen b/c things are so much more intense when you are young, feelings everything. Its weird thinking back to that fear and nervousness and intensity how everything feels I kinda miss it now that Im old so enjoy it all man embrace every moment, don't waste time on games b/c it's such an exciting time in life and it only comes once
I swear if there is one thing I miss in life it was being your age
everything is so new, so ALIVE! the pains that come with it are worth it I think to feel that kind of excitement
and remember some chics are just nuts lol (joking no offence to women)
But I can remember man, its was great. I had a situation like that. Stacey was her name and she lived next door to my grandmother. One day she was would write me cute love letters and the next day she was trying to beat the crap out of me and she had such a bad temper I would run back inside my grandmothers house as she came at me with a tennis racket hahaha good times.
so just ask her what her problem is but look out for tennis rackets thats my advice
peace
Gentle

 

I would go very slowly. I think she's doesn't know what she wants and leans on you for support, so just use this time to examine your own feelings. Love is a huge word. But never give up if this is what you truly want so GOOD LUCK!

 

thanks

 

Jai seems to be fine with me when it's just us. She talks to me, is nice to me and it feels like she does actually like me but then when her friends are around, she just seems to ignore me completely. It's as though she ashamed to be seen with me inj public now. Her ignoring me started probably around six or so months ago.

 

She's a head case. Run.

 

Some of my friends say that i have no chance with Jai but one of my friends called Ebbony said that she thinks that Jai would even go out with me. She even offered to ask Jai out for me. A lot of people think that Jai isn't a nice person but i know that there is definitely still some good in her, no matter what she does or say. Anyway, Jai told me that her best friend called Deanne has now stopped being friends with her and Jai is feeling really sad over that so i don't think i should stop being friends with her. Anyway, i still have hope.

 

any advice on this?

 

Dude, if u still hanging in there just be there. Try for a better friendship frist since she seems very confused still. FRIENDSHIP, no pushing until she figures out what she wants. But stay true to urself and strong. Good luck, it's no fun 2 b lead around, I know!

 

Thanks for your support. I really appreciate it. If anyone else has any form of advice then it would be appreciated.

 

I've seen Jai pretty much all day today and she's just been ignoring for about the last three quarters of the time we were together. The fist quarter and we were having heaps of fun with me and then she just started to ignore me. Plus, there's this guy there and I think that she is starting to want to go out with him but the problem is that that other guy is one of my friends. Should I ask Jai if she has feelings for him and discuss how I feel or should I just sit around doing nothing while she's having fun with him and I'm sitting around by myself doing nothing? Please respond soon for i'm seeing her again in just under half an hour.

 

Talk to her. Tell her how you feel. Ask her how she feels.

 

Thanks. After seeing her again she pretty much ignored me but she did talk to me for like half a minute.

 

I didn't say anything to her but if anyone else has any advice then that would be welcome because i'll probably be seeing her again on either Friday, Saturday or Sunday or maybe on all three.

 

Anybody know what i should say to her because i'm seeing her tonight

 

Anybody else got any advice?

 

Please. I'll probably be seeing her again on Friday and she wants to talk to me then so please, post quickly.