I know what you mean and have come to the point where I never DEPEND on ANYONE anymore but myself. It comes from so many people letting me down in life or mistaking Kindness for Weakness. I think it's just getting to a balance with it. Now I have a hard time if anyone is nice to me-I don't trust them and that's fucked up.
Can't relate to that but when I'm pissed or annoyed by something I like to be alone, because I have a few temper issues and its just not good
if you do things for yourself you don't have to worry when there is no one else because you are accostumed to doing it alone.... independance is a powerful thing....
yeah but how about when you meet someone? i always feel uncomfortable in relationships cuz i'm too damn indepentend i do want a relationship though, not cuz i need someoe, but cuz it's nice to be with someone, but i'm totally out of place in relationships. i get either scared, thinking someones trying to hold me down, geez i'm such a loner!
Well Said and very true. Now when I am in a Relationship it's much better because I am not in one to have anyone do anything for me but allow me to be who I am while they are being who they are etc.