Nudity = Sex (for me)

Discussion in 'Bare It! Nudism and Naturism' started by boogans, Oct 8, 2005.

  1. boogans

    boogans Member

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    Hi. I'm 16. I like being naked, but I have only been naked around other people in a sexual context. No one in my house has ever naked around each other since I was a child.

    I would like to "experiment" with nudity, but I think that I would be embarrassed because I have never really experienced nudity outside of sexual stuff.

    I really don't even know what else to say or ask, I just want to talk about this.
     
  2. Raving Sultan

    Raving Sultan Banned

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    I like cheese
     
  3. NudistMike07

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    The first thing I might suggest is to simply be naked around your home when *or if* youre by yourself and just do normal things that you do while youre clothed to get used to be nude in a non-sexual situation. Then you might get used to it more and not be so embarassed and you can try it other places and maybe with other people in non-sexual situations. That would be a start anyways.
     
  4. bennyh

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    get thee to a nudist club-nothing is less sexual than bunch of saggy senior citizens and preschoolers running around au natural...
     
  5. boogans

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    Yeah, I try to. Usually in the basement, I walk back and forth from the laundry room naked. I guess that's a start.
     
  6. NudistMike07

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    Yeah its a start, even the little things you do are good because then they can lead up to the bigger things being easier later on.
     
  7. BugMan

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    I shower with a swim suit on.
     
  8. astrobreaux

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    nudist resort won't be of a big help to you. since the discriminating bastards at most places don't let single males in. at your age its a bit hard to get away from sexual thoughts due to the hormone rage. but its totally natural to pop some wood, though probably embarrassing for most the first few times. once you're around others a few times its all good, and most won't even bat an eye while talking to you if you do get an erection. most people's problem with nudity=sex, is that they are around people with clothes on all the time and have been taught that its a dirty thing. start off on your own, steal a few opportunities when out and about(sarongs and kilts make it easy), and join a few nudist groups online or in your area.
     
  9. boogans

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    Word. I can totally dig that.

    pop some wood, yo.
     
  10. NudistMike07

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    Why? That makes no sense! Do you mean you take a shower with a swimsuit on at school/pool/nudist resort or at your own home? It would make sense if you do it at a public place but when youre showering at your own home with a swimsuit on, it just seems to boggle my mind why anyone would wanna do that.

    There are some that will let single males in but you gotta know where to look for them and I beleive theyre pretty few and far between. Im sure someone on clothesfree.com or netnude.com would know of where such places are. I dont know of any names off the top of my head though but I do know there are few which do let single males in.
     
  11. scrap_rat

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    Also you might try going as far as you can in other places. Barefoot, shirtless, whatever is socially tolerable where ever you happen to be. It's not the same as naked but it is a few steps toward being comfortable in your skin nonetheless.
     
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