Earlier i posted that me and my gf don't have much in common... My gf asked is pressuring me for a long time to go to this dance class with her. I, however, never danced before and feel embarassed when i dance. If i don't go then she will say i am not putting enough effort in the relationship. I told her this strait up and told her that she is putting me in a dilemma, but she still is persistant with her position. What should i do?
Just go dancing and have fun. It's not that big of a deal. But if you really don't want to do it, then just tell her that, then the ball is in her court. But if you already don't have a lot in common, then this could just be one more thing to hurt the the relationship.
I saw this same thing on some sort of afterschool special or some non-sense. Maybe on Saturday morning tv when I was watching my cousins. Except it was a girl and her best friend. One wanted to go dancing and the other wanted to play with bugs or something. Anyway, the point is in the end they ended up going dancing because the bug chick wanted to save the friendship. The friendship was more important than her feeling silly and not knowing how to dance. And guess what else! She actually had fun. I suggest if you love this gal, you sacrifice your ego and suck it up and go dancing. If you don't care however, do whatever the hell it is you want to do and tell her she is on her own. I convinced Jer to go to a football game Saturday. Yay! And he promised not to be miserable. Even better. We'll see.
Ahh, just suck it up and go. Who knows, you might learn a dance step or two and have fun in the process! Sometimes you have to do things you aren't all that crazy about because you love that person, just as, if there is an interest that you have and want to share with her, she should be willing to at least give it a try as well. Good luck, and go into it with an open mind, you just might have a good time!
Yea, i think i will go. It is just we recently broke up and came back together and i still have my doubts. Some more background info: Before our little breakup i promised i would go dancing with her, now that we are back together, (2 weeks later [being together that is]), i kind of told her i don't want to do it right now.
