Whats your thoughts? For me, if one could be my daughter its way to young. What does it say for the man and what does it say for the female looking for the father figure.
DADDY’S LITTLE GIRL... The father of sexual psychology, Dr. Sigmund Freud’s theory of the Electra Complex, explains a condition which is experienced by young girls during their developmental stages, that causes them to form a strong attraction to their fathers. Perhaps an extreme example of this complex is the relationship between Hollywood icon Woody Allen and his adopted stepdaughter Soon Yi. Friends and especially family members, find it hard to understand why their young/sweet/innocent/nubile daughter has chosen to date that ‘old geezer’. According to Beliza Ann Furman, author of Younger Women - Older Men , women who are attracted to older men fall into two categories: They either had a doting father who frequently told them how cute they were and they want a lover who will do the same, or they never had that kind of attention and are desperate for it. “It could also be due to the fact that older men are more settled and secure financially, and, hence, provide materialistic comforts and gratification easily,” explains psychotherapist, Varkha Chulani. “It’s an ego-booster for many girls, who feel that much more desirable because they’ve managed to hook a 50-year-old as opposed to a younger boy.”
i think it totaly depends on motivation.. i mean love is love regardless of numbers..but if the motivation behind it isnt really a true appreciation of who the individual people are & is more based just on theyre ages..like the father figure..& recapturing youth type relationship .. i dont think thats healthy in the long run
Trish, I go for the ones in thier late 30`s or early 40`s. They seem to have a good grip in life and want to burn that ass up while they still got it.
I've had a lot of experiences with young (19-20ish) women seeing older men (30ish), and none of them went very well. There was a certain lifestyle and maturity gap between them that held them back from a good relationship. A lot of the time it's just the men looking for a "hot young one" or a "girl who is different", and a lot of the time it's just the women looking for a father figure of some kind, or a man who is "mature" and understands them. Not to say that love like this can't happen, because it has, and many couple like this have been happy with it. Whatever's in your heart, I guess.
Im just saying its not for me, would I fuck some young bitch just to fuck her...maybe, its hard to pass up somthing young and dripping. Would I feel bad later, probably.
As I did not respond to your asinine posts, I have no idea why you would choose to flame me in the other thread, which by the way, has been reported. To think that I am a helpless young girl being taken advantage of is ludicrous. I am old enough to make my own decisions regarding who I choose to be my friends and my lovers. NO ONE ELSE. ME. And by the way, Pabsy, just because your daughter is my age does not mean that I am the same mentally and emotionally as her. If your daughter found love with an older man and you would begrudge her that over something as trivial as age, I think that shows how limited your relationship is with your daughter. Apparently, unconditional love isn't a big thing in either yours or the6peace8keeper's households. And how is age a barometer of how the relationship will be? I was with someone my own age for almost 2 years and wound up facing eviction, eating 1 or 2 peices of white bread for dinner if I was lucky. Did I mention I payed all the rent, food and bills? Funny how someone who would SOCIALLY be deemed "better" for me was the worst thing....? I think alot of maturity and re-evalutaion is needed on alot of issues here concerning the posters I addressed by name.
As I did not respond to your asinine posts, I have no idea why you would choose to flame me. TAKE NOTE: You have been reported as has this whole thread. Umm ive no clue to as who you are or why you picked my post to reply too. As far as getting flamed ive no clue. My post is about old men and young females......
excuse me?.... i didnt judge you or the wiz once so i would appreciate you not judging my relationship with my daughter.....