so what would you choose? weed or love? love or weed? and beileve me, this story DOES have a point, so dont give me no bullshit i dumped my last boyfriend on april fools..and it wasnt an "april fool", i was serious. i was hoping he didn't expect me to say "APRIL FOOLS! I LOVE YOU!" after i broke the news to em. and i hate to be the bearer of bad news, but it gets things done. i went out with this guy bobby for about a total of 2-3 weeks. i remeber him telling me he didnt smoke weed anymore, because suposely he was a big stoner back in the day, but now he quit, because one time he got so stoned he passed out and his aunt conviced him why smoking weed was bad. weird reason, but i respect that. i was alright with him not smoking, so i figured he should be alright with me SMOKING. sounds like basic proecedure, doesnt it? he said its okay if i smoke around him, but as long as i didnt physicaly SMOKE right in front of him. "just go around a corner or something at least", he said. i thought this was a weird preferance, but sure, why not? i'll be polite. but this was back when i only smoked a few times a week. he got mad at me because then i started smoking like days in a row, and he'd say "its only gonna get worse, soon you're gonna be smoking everyday." but i dont really see how smoking everday is WORST, i say smoking everyday would actualy be better. it would only be worst if you started smoking less, right? but it did get "worst", i was smoking like everyday now, but why not? weed is only worth something if you smoke it, not if its just sitting there looking pretty. one night, i was hanging out with him and some of his friends, and we were at a closed starbucks. dammit. my friends called me and wanted to hang out, so i said meet us here and then we'll go on a burn ride on the way to some other new starbucks. when they got there, i said to my boyfriend "ok, see u there, im riding with them." "i'll go with you!" "uh..no, thats okay...see yah!" because man, he said dont smoke in front of him, so hell, i was being a "good" girlfriend. so, me and my friends ended up comming in like 15 mins late, delayed from smoking even more in the parking lot. now i didnt know what was going on, i came in and sat down next to him, the red sea in my eyes, completly paralyzed, and the only movement i'd make was a sudden twitch once in a while if he was lucky. i'd also be shivvering for no apparent reason. good times. but right off the back, him and his friend KNEW i was stoned. i forgot that his friend was anti-weed, but however, he was pro liqour and cigarettes. he asked "what did you just do right now???" obviusly he KNEW the answer, but he just wanted me to admitt it. then he started saying all this other crap, what sounded to me a bunch of mumbling. i seriously didnt know what the HELL he was talking about. i dont think i even answered. maybe i answered him in my head, but i didnt say anything. then my boyfriend got pissed and went to go drink somewhere. whatever, i didnt care, i was stoned man so i let em leave. that night is where our 'relationship' started to go DOWNHILL. i just couldn't take it anymore. he was a constant NAG. i already had a MOM, thank you very much. so after a lot of bad noise, we were broken up. he said i was choosing weed over him. but i really wasnt..i was just choosing my FREEDOM over him. i mean hell, if he told me to stop eating too much taco bell(which i really should) i would still dump him, and i wouldnt be choosing fucking taco bell over my boyfriend. he just didnt get the concept. i dont know why he cared so much, hell, when i met him for the first time, i was complelty mind blown stoned. ironic, ay? about a week after we broke up, he suggested "if you dont smoke weed this entire month, we can get back to gether." what the fuck?! it was APRIL man, the 4th fucking month of the year..and on the the 20th day of the 4th month, its just out of the question to not have a smoke-out. but when it comes to two people trying to change eachother, you can either cave in, or live for acceptance. his side was "if you really cared, you'd stop smoking for me" my side was "if you really cared, you'd accept me, no matter what i do." and while i still think my side makes the most sense, both sides are right. but if you dont find a happy medium bewtween those two extremes, you're screwed. so what did i choose? love or weed? weed or love? i chose both. the love *OF* weed. yes. so moral of the story is, you have options in every thing you do, but you just gotta stick with what you beileve is right, and ......GET STONED!
i would call what you had with that guy love,he doesnt sound like hes the right type of guy for you if he doesnt like weed. but i had a stimaler situation my old girlfirend/best firend never smoked weed,but she was fine with the fact i smoked and used a dozen other drugs,she would get pissed when i talked to her high on the phone and stuff but i explaned to her that im pretty much normal and cant remeber everything so she didnt care and was fine with it but she hated me drinking (i still drink thats pretty much why we dont talk anymore)i use to drink everyday for like 4 or 5 days i was drink half the day so she said she no longer wanted to know a drunk loser so i quit drinking 1 month and half ago but it hasnt been going to well ive already got drunk twice sence then,but im trying to stop the part that pissed me off is i told her i was drinking to much and i wanted to stop and insted of saying yeah ill stick by you,you should stop drinking,she said fucking you, your a drunk i never want to talk to you again by,and the worst part is that ive been firends with her for 3 years i cant talk to anyone like i talk to her it just sucks cause ive lost such a good and close firendship
i only read half of it and then i was distracted by king of the hill. but from what i can tell, u need to forget this guy and date me. there.
actually i just finished reading it and it sounds like he was being a bit of an ass, since u held up ur end of the bargain and didnt smoke in front of him, but maybe his opinions changed and u both just had to move on.
If you're smoking too much and he really liked you then he was genuinely concerned about your health. You're only 18 and it would be a shame to waste it. However, if he was constantly making you feel uncomfortable then it's probably better for both of you that the relationship finished. Why do you smoke so much, anyway?
welll....me and him are way over with now, but its not just weed..he was tottaly trying to control me! teling me what to wear, say, and be like...i swear he had a problem with everything i did or said.and thats not good in a relationship. believe me, there were WAY more reasons why i dumped him besides the fact i wouldt quit smoking JUST for him. anyways my oringal idea was just to make this a funny story but now it turned all serious? what the...?
