how does one ask for something of a booty call?

hi all,
I have this new friend, I've known him for about a month now and I really think he likes me. I like him alright and I would like to pursue something a bit more sexual with him, how does one ask? I dont want anything serious or even long term or even more than once but I'd like to try... how do I break the ice?

 

are u a guy or a girl?

 

Alcohol works (don't get drunk just invite for some drinks). It will 1) relax both of you 2) Open both of you to the situation 3) If you don't like how it ends blame it on the booze lol

 

call him up at 11pm and ask him to come over to hang out and have a couple drinks or smoke a joint.

 

i'm a girl

 

Simply ask him straight out. Jesus.

No need for subterfuge if yer a girl

 

Really I think if a girl jsut asked almost any guy would say yes

 

I completely agree. That's the number one thing guys want anyway - no matter what they say to you, because what they say to you is usually what they think you want to hear, and it's all geared toward the ultimate goal of getting into your pants. So if you just tell him straight out what you want, you'll save him and you both a lot of game playing. And he'll have a lot more respect for you for being honest and up front about it.

 

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Break the ice? Just make sure hed be cool with it, see how far you want to go, and then just work your way on to him. make out with him, get him horny and go with it

 

"any chance for a little friendly sex?"

 

My line is "Do you fancy a shag?"

 

HAHAHA

 

SofiaS and I will demonstrate for everyone.

 

You will know when its available, she'll make it obvious for you.

CachedOut

 

he's not making it very obvious...we're always on the verge of being intimate...lol

 

I agree... but women need to make the right moves to let the guy know you are ready, cause 99% of guys are born ready LOL, not really but you know what I mean


CachedOut

 

IronGoth and Cached out are right, it is easy for a lass to get the guy, just ask outright .

+ LOL, just noticed your new sig Wizzy, fighting the good fight for me aye

 

You don't ask.. You just pursue it physically. You are a female for christs sake. hah..

How do you break the ice you ask?

Be seductive, it's in every females nature. Get all touchy feely and he will take the hint. If not, undress yourself, I'm sure that will work.

 

Don't mean to get too personal, but it might help if we kinda knew your and your bf's approximate ages and how much experience either of you has had. Is he a virgin?

I mean basically, what everyone is saying is right. With you being a female, you've got it made. You're totally in control. Take advantage of it.