handjobs...

I find them to be totally awkward. how can this be less awkward? what do u think about it?

 

What do you mean, you find them awkward? In what way?

 

Just think about it realistically. You are a highly inteligent animal pleasing another highly inteligent animal in this beautiful way. I dont know. I dont see it as awkward more like awesome just hhave fun doin it and im sure you man will dig it fo real

 

When pleasing a girl orally or with my hands, seeing and hearing them getting off, turns me on, the faces the expressions make me horny.

 

i find it awkard like, i dont even know

 

put it in your mouth instead, problem solved

 

thats what i would rather do, lol but i dont want the guy to think im a slut and i'll do w/e he wants, even tho im not a slut at all

 

he wont think ur a slut, hell love it, or at least... i would

 

Do Both!
Put the tip in your Mouth and Rub the Shaft!
Oh and DON'T foregt - NONE that is Sex ---since Clinton!

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Make sure you use a lot of spit if you're going to do it...I always find it's a good start to oral OR intercourse.

I also tend to use my hands a lot if I'm giving a blow job. I don't think it's awkward at all!

 

Errr... Never mind.

 

I like to approach the problem using nursing diagnostic techniques :

1. Make sure you are familiar with the workings of the equipment. Is skin intact? Are you in relatively good health? Are your nails trimmed and neat?

2. Gather your equipment. Lube, towels, gloves for the anal probe, hot herbal tea for any oral activity.

3. Decide whether or not your hand can comfortably hold the diameter of the penis. Rather large European men might pose a problem for the slender Asian digits.

4. I like Johnson and Johnson Baby Cream in the jar. Makes a big difference. Jar and tube are practically different products IMHO.

5. Decide whether you are going to perform the action with the palm moving up and down the bottom of the shaft or up and down on the top of the shaft.

6. There is no reason for your to necessarily be facing this person if you are doing it standing up. Try different positions (ie doggie style, on his side, in the shower, on his back). I'm sure he would be willing to experiment until he finds the position that is most comfortable for him.

7. Lastly, and please don't take this as an insult, allow him to masturbate the way he likes best. Watch and learn. A man's masturbatory technique is based on hand motion, speed and pressure placed upon the organ. Some men like to have their nipples played with while they are getting a hand job. Others might like to have their scrotum gently tapped with the fingers of the other hand. Some guys might like an anal probing and others might be into kissing.

Most of all, enjoy the moment. And if he happens to call out someone else's name when he actually shoots... well...

 

Lube lube lube... or do it in the shower with lots of soap lather, it wont be so awkward then, and of course it will be awkward if hes lying down or sitting, its a funny angle

 

And don't neglect the balls...

 

It's going to be very difficult to get good at this without a lot of practice. My advice is to learn how to perform fellatio, in my opinion, its better all-around for both parties.

Also, supporting the guy who said dont neglect the balls, try this: take your index and thumb and grab the sack. Don't have an actual ball inbetween your fingers, just the skin, then lightly pinch it and kind of move your fingers around like you are gesturing like you would when someone asks you what the root of all evil is. If that didnt makes sense ill try to clarify, I've had a few woman do this for me and its amazing. Also, while you are doing that movement, kind of pull down on the sack at the same time, be very gentle though, the pressure feels real good for us.

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Handjobs are gay. I've always thought that. Why bother doing something that they can do themselves? Durrh.

Suck the guy off. You're a whore anyway, so better learn to suck cock.

 

lol

 

Oh, no, no, no, there is nothing like the feel of a woman's hand on yer cock, but technique is really important. It's really not the same as doing it yourself.

Some girls go at it like they're trying to pump up a bike tyre, but there are so many different ways of driving a guy crazy with your hands you really shouldn't discount it. A real slow stroke, and a sliding grip can be heaven. Having someone lightly brush their finger tips or palm over my bell end sends me into a trance.

 

fuck handjobs, give blowjobs!

 

I never give handjobs. I always get frustrated in, like, 2 seconds cuz my hand never just glides up and down, it more gets stuck, moves a little, gets stuck, moves a little, and so on, until I just put it in my mouth and just play with his balls with my hands.

And I give good head anyway, 92% of guys I've blown have said something along the lines of "damn, you're good at that!" I don't know, maybe I just like putting my skills to use!!!hehehe!