ima nice guy......

I say be yourself all the way, and if girls want to hang out with assholes/posers let them...
Don't change you don't want the chicks that goes for assholes anyways, trust me

 

on a small ship with a sparse population we could all become emamored with someone , then become disenfranchised with same ....switch to the next shipmate , them repeat ....alphabeticaly over n over .you could get laid and relaynshunyershipmates

 

or humanity could cuusterfuck like bonobos or beat each other up like chimps ....we will never get a foundation layed for a free n voulentary society ,worring about getting layed , while we wallow in our vanity and unfullfillment .

 

Man you gotta embrace your inner arsehole.

We've all got one, nice guys just fail to use the facilities it offers. Im not saying be an arse hole all the time, just work it into your daily routine when you see fit.

Nice guys do finish last most of the time, so come on... if you look hard enough I bet its hiding just below the surface.

 

mmm'kay...
yeah i want someone to treat me like shit and control me and be the biggest asshole in the world to me thats exactly what I want...

please, thats just an excuse that people tell themselves cause they cant get anyone...

anyways thats like me saying, guys only want skanks that put out, that have big tits, big bums and so forth...

 

*rolls on the floor with laughter*
ahem
This is absolutely ridiculous that guys haven't got this yet.

The guys who are 'self-professed nice guys' are usually a little immature and clingy. That turns us off in an ugly way, and gives most girls the urge to squish you like a mosquito. buzz buzz. What turns us on is this:
Listen vewy, vewy cawrfully.

Confidence and Assertiveness.

The jerks have it in cartloads. Some girls are literally addicted to jerks, because they can't get enough approval from them.

If you can learn to be assertive and nice, then girls will want you. I did the whole jerk-chase thing for a while. Yes, I went for nice guys, then I switched to jerks... and then I realized I was slowly dying so I left, and I went out with a nice guy who wasn't even all that confident all the time and had an amazing relationship. I went out with a nice guy and had a life-changingly good time. ITS POSSIBLE!!!

If you want to learn how to be assertive, start with saying what you want and what you feel. Leave the awkwardness behind. Make yourself vulnerable in a powerful way.

yes :$
go meditate on that.

 

This is absolutly ridiculous that everyone havn't got this yet, all people are different!

 

my husband's a very nice person. he's also very attractive, smart, interesting, hard-working and fun to be around. "nice" is only one part of a person. what are your other characteristics?

 

If you just want to score then be a bit of a twat and you'll do fine. If you want a relationship with someone who truely loves and values you then I'd stay as you are. Someone will appreciate that one day and you will be blissfully happy together.

When you say that you give them whatever they want (what you can afford) that isn't being nice. That's showering them with material possesions to hang on to them for as long as is possible. If someone likes you for who you are then they would be as happy sleeping in the back of your van as they would in a hotel, or as happy walking in the hills as round a shopping mall.

I've always thought that you need to be truely happy within yourself before you can let another person into yourself. And that can only be true if you are being you.

 

Hey yes
that's true what Or's well said.
true true true mmm

 

good point. and a girl will feel like she's being bought. that will backfire either way you slice it. either she hates it and leaves, or she loves it and stays. you're in a sinking ship either way.

 

I'd like to anounce that today a nice guy became blisfully happy )

Yup, I'm on top of the world and it's been worth the wait! She is perfect, we couldn't be anymore in love with each other. It's beautiful, really, really beautiful.

 

Lets see, I've created a flow chart to help you score the girls you want.

Given
1. Is a nice guy
2. Buys whatever
Show
6. Score girl


1.Is a nice guy 4. Learn to spell 5. Find girl whos not a bitch 6. Score girl
Given >>>> Get educated >>>> Talk with girls >>>> CTRG
^^
2. Buys whatever wanted >>>> 3. Stop buying whatever for girls
Given Keep money in wallet

CTRG= Choose the right girl