alcoholic

omg i need to quit! i need to quit!..this is horrible..i've come to the conclusion that i've spent my whole summer drinking atleast twice a week!..how am i supposed to deal with this! i didnt think that it had been all summer i thought maybe a month but oh no of course not im always proved wrong with stuff like that..grrr...on saturday i was so drunk that i dont remember what i did or what happened. and i had started drinking so early in the day, and so fast that i was passed out by 9 o'clock! you know how bad that is???..and the only things i remember from saturday night are going to the school to get high, comin back screaming how i needed to get laid while my whole street could hear me!, sitting in my garage, puking when my mom brought me back down to the school, and then thats it....after that i was put in the tent and i curled up and passed out at like 9:00 and then i was put in bed at like 1 when lance got there and put me in bed because i wouldnt get up for my mom or anyone else but lance, now thats sad!....like i cant believe that i dont remember what happened!..i had 2 coolers in 20 minutes, and then drank a water bottle and a half that had vodka and sprite mixed half and half, then took a 3 oz. shot of straight vodka...i was so fucken wrecked that night! like it was crazy!..then the night before friday night, i only had like 2 drinks but i was so unbelievabley high that it wasnt even funny!..i was so stoned and then i went to the school dance like the idiot i am and wow was that ever trippy!! i dont recommend it because the lights will make you sick! believe me!! lol......after last weekend i told myself ok im not going to drink for awhile now, and im done with drugs, and all that shit...well i've got plans to party this friday, shows how long that lasted huh?....i've become such an alcoholic that i cant handle it anymore. like its pretty bad when you skip the afternoon of school to get drunk and high! like really!! something is seriously wrong with me! i need help and i know it but at the same time im just as happy being what i am and just going with the flow..it makes things a hell of alot easier and then i dont have to actually accept the fact that i might be an alcoholic....oh well, whatever..im not that bad..im not an alcoholic..and im not hardcore like alot of my friends would like to call me AND im not a juice head neither! lmao.......ok well i need some serious advice here cause i might lose a guy that i love dearly over all this and it wont be his choice it'll be his parents interferring because they dont like that i do all the stuff that i do!.....well thats about all for right now, i'll keep updatin every so often just to let you know im not dead from alcohol poisoning lol...later!! xoxoxo

 

if alcohol is making a fool of ya.....quit drinking it, simple as that....ain't rocket science is it?

 

i've been trying to get her to quit & show her just how bad her problem is ever since i met her about a year ago, she doesnt remember entire days, keeps a bottle of vodka in her locker at school, drinks till shes pukin & passin out in alleys, her mom has let her drink since she was 6 or 9 & heavily since 12..her & all her freinds go to these parties (see a thread called parties in this forum) where if your not drinking fast enough, they shove a funnel down your throught & force you to guzzle a bottle of vodka or drown..
& still she thinks its all harmess fun
i've been begging her to get to aa or something, & her excuse is "if i have the time" yet she has plenty of time to get drunk till shes unconceise. i tell her to make the time to go, & she says she'll try..but instead makes the time to drink by ditching school..
this is the first time shes really reached out for help like this, so please, keep your comments helpful

 

it is helpful mate, the only way to stop alcohol being a problem, is to stop drinking the damned stuff......yer can wrap a plea for help from a drunk in all the fancy packaging yer like....but until a person makes a concious decision not to drink.....she'll be rolling around in her own puke and piss forever.

Check my reply in the other thread(s) dealing with her problem....i know wot i'm talking about softly softly ain't worth a bucket of shit if she won't listen

 

yea i remember you trying to help in the other thread.. that was mainly geared to those people who just like to post "go fuckin kill yourself now" in reply to every cry for help

and your right, she needs to stop completely, & avoid hanging oput with her drinking buddies..
or at least insist they dont drink around her

 

I'm really just curious here...but...how is it that you know this 13-year-old alcoholic girl?

 

thats actualy a long story
she lied to me the first few months i knew her, said she was 21, there were alot of craxzy lies, but truths hidden in the lies..
by the time i found out the truth we were already freinds..altho i was pretty pissed awhile..but i got over it

 

You beleived a 13-year-old girl was 21?
I mean come on...I used to have to ID people at my old job, and I can't even imagine getting fooled by a 13-year-old.

 

lol no we just know eachother online..

 

Oh good. I was getting a little creeped out there for a second.

Well lil-miss-ugly (nice name. wtf?) it sounds like it's all kind of a big joke to you and you're pretty convinced you don't have a problem...so exactly what kind of advice are you looking for?

 

shes offline.. but, part of her knows its a big problem, but she treats it as a joke..her way of justifying not trying too hard to fix it..but its really getting out of hand & shes about to lose her boyfreind over it

 

It doesn't sound real to me again...

 

ive got a friend who someteims drinks every day of the week even when theres school (thats when his parents cant find out.. or now that hes 18 and can buy goon lol). twice a week in teh hollidays is what most people do normally over here at our age... i wouldnt call THAT a problem.

but i guess not 13/14 year old.. females.. drinkning that much...

jees why cant she stick to dope.. !

 

her mom let her drink when she was 6 wtf ok now you know where the problem started,i quit drinking a couple months ago too casue i was drinking everyday,punch my cousin in the face for fun,walked around town at 3 in the morning pissing in the middile of the road,yelling at people to get the fuck out of my firends house non of which i knew,freaked out one chick so bad she will no longer stay in a room with me unless theres another guy big enough to kick my ass there,totaly trashing firends houses,driving drunk at night doing dounuts in the middile of the road,throughing empty bottles at people,at 14 i couldnt even get booze with out stealing it from firends parents,my dad started to let me drink when i was 15 but not alot,he wouldnt let me get drunk only have a couple beers when we went out fishing or something,i told him i dont like to drink and i only smoke pot now(i only smoke pot a couple times a week but i do other drugs once in a while like salvia,maybe some pharms)i dont even know where someone would get that much booze i mean i cant even get that much with out spending a pretty penny and im pretty sure she doesnt have a job,alcohol is fucked up, ill just stick to my weed and my ocational use of psycadelics

 

twice a week? that's nothing, all summer i woke up to a nice bottle of soco and jeager, i drank everyday all week, and i ain't got no regrets, twice a week is nothing relax.

 

umm when someones saying theyre an alcaholic & need help ya dont say, well i drink more then that, chill out & keep on drinkin
alcaholism has nothing to do with how much you drink, its a disease
an alcaholic that hasnt touched a drop in 10 years is still an alcaholic
& when she says twice a week, thats twice a weekl that she drinks so much she doesnt remember anything..then when she wakes up the next morn she starts drinking the leftovers
she drinks every day, just not till shes drowning in puke
1major symptom of alcoholism is they cant stop without help..& that describes her perfectly
perhaps instead of saying relax, you should be asking yourself idf perhaps you have a problem too

no offence meant

 

an alchoholic who hasnt touched a drop in 10 years is still an alchoholic? what are you talking about? alchoholism is a dependance on calchohol. if this person was an alchoholic all those 10 years then theyd be having withdrawals for 10 years. thats unheard of! at least till now...

they would however have a higher susceptability to reverting back to alchoholism if they started drinkning again

 

wow um ok well thanks soo much for all your support and what not it really means alot..and i would love to thank the advice from the person who told me to keep on drinking! woohoo to them! thanks! lol....aww man tomorrow night is going to be so awesome! lol im going out with my friend lorain and then my boyfriend is off work at like 9 or 10 and then hes gonna come out and its going to be soooo awesome!! lol...we have a 40 of smirnoff and theres only a little bit missing from it....wow me and her are gonna get soo smashed lmao i cant wait!!!....and whether i am or im not an alcoholic, its not that bad..its not a big deal..i'll live....and well as much as i do want to drink i think that at the same time i want to quit just as bad if not more..but the thing is i'll never do something about it unless im literally pushed right into..and the unfortunate thing is that all the people that care about me enough to actually push me into help, are all people that i go drinking with all the time..and would never want me to change because they wouldnt get to have as much with me anymore...so im basically screwed anyways so it doesnt matter.....but either way, really um thanks for everything here guys and to answer that one question, what kind of advice am i looking for?..well im looking for advice that wont piss me off but will actually help me at the same time and just be very brutal with me, i LOVE brutality!..its great!...ok well i gotta get to bed, got a long day ahead of me tomorrow...night everyone! xOxOx

 

He's right. Once an alcoholic, always an alcoholic.

And I'm pretty sure this thread is fake.

 

dont beat up the girl, shes already doing that.. just becuase she doesnt realise YET.. that shes not being cool by killing herslef, and that in a few years she'll be deeply regretting her actions, and possibly in other realms of trouble... Don't piss on her life.. shes fourteen .

She is a kid, literally whatever she thinks or has been through... her mind is very childlike. This could be becasue of a trauma at a certain age that trapped her in that frame of age...anything could have caused her unhappines, becuase thats what drinking is, trying to be tough becuase you're missing somehting you don't dare ask for..and here she is asking now, but fully aware at the same time that people will be shitty and uncaring as you have been, thats part of the mix, shes feels unworthy of attention, so makes herself into something undesireable..ie, a drinker, a 'bad person'
the thing is she isnt a bad person, shes fourteen years old....there are a million things going on around her, and she obviously hasnt got anyone realiable to turn to...other drunk kids, or a mum that sends her back out into the night after throwing up drink...thats just cruel. Her mum definately should have taken the whip out/taken her in.
But people arent always good, and this girl is obviously a good girl surrounded by bad things.

If i could tellher one thing it would be.. Just becuase you're surrounded by idiots, it doesnt mean you have to be one.. just becuase peope are LESS INTELIIGENT THAN YOU.. it doesnt mean you have to change.. you will find new poepl in the world who are up to your level of inteligence..and they will love and respect you for being your true, intelligent self.

I am betting here, that you are a very bright person, possibly very talented, creative and ins[pred??? its just a guess but i expect that you have dealt with a lot of jealousy from people for your talents and skills, and you are trying to destroy them so thewy wont feel so inadequate...