im the same way. i think i fear my loved ones dying most. i don't know what i would do without my son, my best friends and alot of my family. they mean the world to me and i cannot imagine them gone forever (from this life anyway) and it makes me sad to think of my son not knowing me if something were to happen... i definately have the attachments buddhism recomends giving up!!!!
No... and i'm no lair i have no fear and i DONT believe in an afterlife... i have two children and i would fear for them.... for they would have to live alone... what is fear of death?... the act of dying itself or the childlike fear of going to sleep and missing something?