Be honest. Tell her exactly how you are feeling. HOw long have you two been together? How long have you been having these feelings?
Just tell her what you told us. Be honest, let her know where she stands. You could bring it up in context of the lease, saying next time you don't think you should renew it or whatever you think is appropriate. Discuss it like grown-ups, don't beat around the bush or be pretensious about it, that never helps. Blessings Sebbi
So what your saying is-----You are in two Relationships that you are ending...first your relationship with her and the other one the lease you put your name on saying you would be in it for so long. Sub Letting sounds kool but LOL I doubt you can sublet her. So be a Man about it and be honest in both situations (Relationships) you have chossen to back out of now. Then deal with the problems backing out of both relationships will now bring into your life. How you deal with both of them will educate you on what responsibilites come with entering one. In the future make sure you want to be in one BEFORE you Committ to one.
it's just hard just takes time. The guy I am with right now called me a bitch this morning and I hung up on him and there was no apology on his end or call back and I don't feel like he has it in him to make me happy or want to so I am sensing that my relationship is going to end because how can you be with somone who does not care about you? You just can't. I don't need that shit in my life ya know. I think he's seriously fucked in the head he only wants me when i ignore him and when I'm nice I get ignored...I deserve better ya know? So who knows but it just takes time. good luck to you
and I sure as shit don't need to be kicked when I'm feeling down. I can't believe he called me that after I had the shittiest day. there's too many nice men out there who would be happy to treat me right I certainly don't need to deal with this crap.
Just be honest with her. People fall in and out of love, it happens. Just tell her how you feel about the situation and it will go much more smoothly than if you lie or try to spare her feelings. This way you can both move on and hopefully you have learned a lesson (i mean about signing leases with people). Take care, jen
I just can't believe you went into someone else's thread and started talking about yourself. What you said had nothing to do with the issue at hand. Trust me, if it was your own thread, I wouldn't have opened it. But this was one I replied to... Trust me, I'm NOT obsessed over you. Get real.
what are you talking about you stalked me on a thread I started last week. I finally just let you talk to yourself and ignored you and several people said you were being a bit pathetic in your obsession with me and that finally made you stop. I'm just wondering when you'll stop stalking me for good.
ooh. thread jacking in progress, neither ignoring the other. back to topic, you really just have to open up and be honest. once either of you starts to yelling, you need to understand that the conversation is over, because nothing ever gets solved that way and the neighbors will probably complain. it sounds funny, but you guys may need to lay down the rules of the discussion prior to the actual discussion. scheduling it will help to get both of you in the right frame of mind to deal with this logically. such a tough situation. i wish you luck.
