I've known ginger for 18 years. I introduced her to everyone as my bestfriend and I treated her like a sister she never had. At her wedding she didn't even call me to take a picture with her, she call in her other friends and totally seem to ignored my presence there. I felt so sad my heart sank to my stomach, but becuase i thought of her as a friend...i kept my smile all day and that it was her wedding day. She had cousins as bridesmaids but they were not called on to help her. Then out of the blue the groom called me, sounded rude, demanded I should help ginger into her dresses throught the evening banquet. And i did just that and still kept my smile. At the banquet and while helping her into her dresses, not once did she thank me, not once did she initiate a conversation with me. I feel so sad, I cried for days after geting home. 4days later she called and ask me to dinner. I told her i can't make it so she picked another date. WHAT SHOULD I DO? JUst ignore her?
Somebody once told me that being taken for granted is a compliment. I still don't know what that was supposed to mean.
is this the only time cause it could have been the stress or hassel of the wedding..dunno, I wouldnt ignore her, though you are hurt and upset, just ignoring her wont help any.. maybe just let go what happened at the wedding, unless she does this to you all the time, then I would just talk to her since you guys are bestfriends, i am pretty sure you could talk to her, ya know.. but my advice completely sucks, so good luck!
my advice would be to invite her to a park or someplace on neutral ground,, but relatively private,,(not a resturaunt) an sit her down an tell her your feellings,,tell her how hurt you were,,then go from there.. Hope it works out.. luv n lite..
Having been married, let me say this. A wedding is a BLUR. You always have 100-1000 people around you who ALL want to be like, the only person there with you. You could divide your time with everyone as much as you can yet still do the ceremony, the pictures etc. and SOMEONE is gonna feel left out.
/\ this has given me a lot to think about i could feel your pain while reading your post. i've had situations like that happened to me and i decided to distance myself from them, but eventually they came looking for me because i wasnt there anymore, i dont know if i make myself understood here
