Do you believe in casual sex?? Does sex mean nothing??

I think casual sex is just fine.. whatever rocks your boat and all that. But personally.. it's really not my thing. I'd much rather be with someone I love.

 

Exactly.

All of my friends that have casual sex are much more depressed, withdrawn and and low self-e-steem.

But they hide all of that well.

Then they talk to me about how disgusting they feel, how lucky I am to not have all the baggage that comes with it.

I just believe that sex should bloom from love and not lust.

Thank you all for your opinions!!

 

I think we have to follow our own "moral code" but not judge people who have a different one.

I live in a small town (and I meal small!) and most of us teens have had casual sex starting at about 14, whether it's oral or intercourse.

I'm also bi and have a steady g/f and both of us enjoy boys, but don't want relationships with them, so there are is a lot of "casual sex" with them. We have "shared" boys (foursomes) and we have had GREAT sex.

Although there are people who consider us sluts, that's their judgement. I try not to let it bother me.

 

Don't get me wrong! This dude who is my fuck buddy is also my very best friend in the whole world. We both love each other but not in a relationship way. We both know that if we tried a relationship we would loose the great friendship we have. So when we want we get it on and when we don't we don't simple as that!!!

 

If you never tried it, how do know you dont like it? LoL

 

I had intended on saving myself until marriage....but when i did lose my virginity it was with someone I love...I can't imagine having sex with someone i didn't love...i mean i guess sex has to be meaningful in my mind and with someone i love

 

I've had a couple casual sex partners and it was fun while they lasted but that's not for me anymore. Having sex with someone you love is just so much more intense and meaningful. That's what's for me.

 

Casual sex is the sex you have up until you gets serious with someone. It gets you experienced for when you're ready to commit. If you don't want to commit, then sex is basically always casual.

 

I dont't see aything wrong with casual sex at all, the above quote pretty much sums up the ways in which I generally always have sex. I'd elaborate them further though.

On many occasions i can't even clearly recall the name of the person I'm going to fuck, I've probly been introduced but am terrible with names and tend to forget quickly. But if I forget a girls name I just skirt aroung having to use it and take them home and fuck them anyway.A name really dosent matter if there just a fuck and nothing more.

I've done the whole g'friend thing a couple of times but haven't had one now for the last 3 years, I still manage to have a fairly active sex life although I will admit to it all being very casual and rather meaningless. Thats not an issue though.
I have great friends and a good family, and if I want companionship/love I just spend time with them. If I want sex, I either pickup soem girl or call on of my fuck friends. Its so much simpler. No need to explain myself to a girlfriend and no need to put up with the massive amounts of shit that comes with having one.

So don't knock casual sex...
For some its a way of life.

 

Because its sooooo..... much easier to just not care.
I've been doing it for ages and it works wonders for me.

 

any feelings of disgust or outrage towards any sexual act are due to your own personal feelings conflicting with the views of society...a lot of people adopt the view of society disregarding how they truly feel inside.....

sit in silence for a while and put out any thoughts or feelings that arise because of something outside yourself(for example: my parents would frown on it, friends would call me names... or whatever) you already know the answer, you just have to find it

 

hmm....They just need a good f**k!

 

Never had casual sex but now that I am newley released into the wild I plan to

 

But... Personally I'd rather die than stop caring..

 

I had a fair amount of casual sex when I was a teenager and for myself I realized casual sex just wasn't as good (even just physically) as when in a serious relationship, not to mention the risks and complications. To each their own.

You can take that both ways, society has a part that is very conservative, but also a part that is very liberal, casual sex is very common in the media today.

 

I, personally, have casual sex. Currently, I have a couple "fuck buddies". Just as long as you don't get too attached, I believe it to be okay. One of them is a very good friend whom I love; the other just a friend that I have had sex with off and on for a couple years. Basically, I think that not all people can have casual sex, some people get way too attached and feel bad after doing it. At this point in my life, I just think it is okay to do & I'm just chillen and having a great time before I eventually settle down...

 

i wouldnt feel bad - theres all types in the world, and if you're lucky you find someone like you . . . I have only come across casual partners when im very drunk, i think thats how about 90 % of it happens in my town (s) , and i know i've never been as good with those girls compared to the ones i've had some sort of relationship with..

 

i have no problem with casual sex...it isnt a big deal, unless im in a relationship. when im actually in a relationship with someone, sex means alot more

 

it isn't the casualty of their sex so much, but more the fact that your friend and her brother were planning to have sex, "in the same area,"... which i took to mean at least the same room. i sure couldn't have sex in a room where my brother was pounding my buddy at the foot of the bed. and if it were your brother and your brothers friend? something about that set up makes it seem even more incestual. there's group sex, and there are family activities, but group sex is not a family activity. i understand that they're not planning on touching each other, but they'd at least be planning to see and hear each other... it's not like when you and your brother sneak off for a joint; having sex to "kick back and bond" with your brother just doesn't work.. that's a bit too casual for me.

 

you contridict your own theory by being in this forum young'n